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billiscool
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17 Apr 2014, 9:51 am

so my girlfriend is really stressing me out,
one week she very happy,the next week she's mad
and bitter,wtf,I can't take this mood change.Is
it just her,or do most women have mood change.

Why can't she just be happy all the f--king time.
it's f--king annoying.She should be happy all
the time. Her madness,gets me mad.f--k
f--k,f--k.



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17 Apr 2014, 10:09 am

You are not happy all the time.

Have you asked her what she is unhappy about?



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17 Apr 2014, 11:26 am

Are you listening to her when she gets upset. Being felt and understood goes a long way for women in relationships.


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17 Apr 2014, 11:36 am

Women moody? No . . . that never happens. :wink:

You may find that her mood changes coincide with her menstrual cycle. The week before is usually the worst time. Might be a good idea to keep track of the mood swings and see if there's a pattern. If so, just try to be patient with her. The hormonal shifts that women go through are quite powerful and unpleasant.


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17 Apr 2014, 11:37 am

I don't think its possible for someone to be happy all the time,that's a tall order.


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17 Apr 2014, 1:31 pm

She could be on her period they get really moody during that time!


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17 Apr 2014, 7:18 pm

lol what a joke.

Maybe you aren't cut out for relationships.

If you don't like being in a relationship, dump her. Sounds to me like she has bipolar. Seriously, you don't seem like you can cope with people with problems, so maybe you're better off on your own.



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17 Apr 2014, 8:02 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
lol what a joke.

Maybe you aren't cut out for relationships.

If you don't like being in a relationship, dump her. Sounds to me like she has bipolar. Seriously, you don't seem like you can cope with people with problems, so maybe you're better off on your own.


Yeah,Im better now.I like her but she's a terrible girlfriend,she's
a good quasi-girlfriend.She's good for making out and
hugging whenever she wants it,and fun to talk to.(when she's
not mad)

She moved down the rank.There another female co-worker
I was/am flirting with. I like her alot too.She very nice
and doesn't have annoying mood swing.



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17 Apr 2014, 8:09 pm

My 'boyfriend' says the exact same thing about me.
We had a conflict about it and now he doesn't want to speak it out. He doesn't take initiative anymore to starting whatsapp conversations. So I think this is his way of breaking up.



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17 Apr 2014, 8:18 pm

billiscool wrote:
She's good for making out and
hugging whenever she wants it,and fun to talk to.(when she's
not mad)

She moved down the rank.There another female co-worker
I was/am flirting with.


Are you serious? "Moved down the rank"?!? Man you must be good looking.


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17 Apr 2014, 10:37 pm

Anyone else willing to bet that this new girl will start having mood swings?

If you want to play the field, then there isn't anything to change... But for relationship... The following will likely apply

To be more constructive with anything I have to say: remember to listen first and be more supportive when she wants to talk. Don't offer solutions to problems if she just wants to talk. If she wants a solution, she will tell you.


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18 Apr 2014, 12:10 pm

My girlfriend goes from very flirty,very ''touchy''
to completely ignoring me and very mad for some reason.

She say she's my girlfriend,then she completely ignores me
for a while then she goes back to flirting and kissing me
again,WTF. She's a good friend,a good quasi-girlfriend,
a lousy girlfriend.Why the f--k does she say she's
my girlfriend,when she doesn't want to talk to me.
f--k,that. She's a quasi-girlfriend now,she did
this to herself.I can tolerate this BS from a quasi-girlfriend,
but a girlfriend has to respect me,none of this
f--king mad ignore sh-t.f--k.f--k.f--k.

(I like her,but she's a terrible girlfriend)



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18 Apr 2014, 12:47 pm

Wow! She sounds like an actual person with feelings and stuff.



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18 Apr 2014, 12:52 pm

If you get in an argument with her when shes mad at you for no reason just stare at her boobs shell probably get angrier and frustrated then storm off to her room and slam the door then you go have a few beers then a few hours later she forgets whats shes mad about then you both have make up sex! 8)


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18 Apr 2014, 2:03 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
Wow! She sounds like an actual person with feelings and stuff.


no,she's a terrible girlfriend.A good girlfriend would be more
respectful. I like her but she sucks as a GF.Quasi-girlfriend now
that her right rank. I always showed her respect,and she
has the nerve to be mad and ignore me,wtf,that stupid.
Im her boyfriend,she shouldn't ignore me.What's the point,
dating someone if you don't want to talk to them.

I just wanted to talk to her,and she didn't want to talk
to me,wtf,that's stupid. Other time she does talk to me.
it's up and down with her.If I get another girlfriend or
the like,hopefully she be more respectful towards me



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18 Apr 2014, 2:22 pm

billiscool wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Wow! She sounds like an actual person with feelings and stuff.


no,she's a terrible girlfriend.A good girlfriend would be more
respectful. I like her but she sucks as a GF.Quasi-girlfriend now
that her right rank. I always showed her respect,and she
has the nerve to be mad and ignore me,wtf,that stupid.
Im her boyfriend,she shouldn't ignore me.What's the point,
dating someone if you don't want to talk to them.

I just wanted to talk to her,and she didn't want to talk
to me,wtf,that's stupid. Other time she does talk to me.
it's up and down with her.If I get another girlfriend or
the like,hopefully she be more respectful towards me


if when you're with her you talk to her anything like you talk about her here, i'm not surprised she gets mad and doesn't want to talk to you. i suggest if you'd like to rid of her for good, show her what you've said about her on this forum--i guarantee if you do she'll be gone from your life in a flash and won't bother you with her "bad girlfriend" traits anymore. :wink: