hurtloam wrote:
What just happened? Did I miss something? That is sooo not funny today bearing in mind I just found out the guy I like is going out with someone else.
I've only ever rejected 2 men. One I had nothing in common with, the other was too young. That's it. I'm the one that gets friendzoned.
I think that saying other women are stupid and shallow is just a way of saving face or just being immature, the grown up version of "well, your just a poopy head!"
The author of the article is right in that if I look at my female friends who are in relationships, they are not stupid and shallow, so it is unfair to say that men are only after stupid shallow women because they are not. It's the same with men who say girls only want stupid shallow men when they get rejected. We just don't play the game right or have some off putting habits or something. The problem is me, not other people.
There are lots of other woman that are stupid and shallow, just like plenty of guys who are stupid and shallow...I think what can be taken from this is stupid shallow people get with stupid shallow people. And in my opinion most of my failed relationships ended up being problems from both ends I imagine I do not think relationships are one-sided therefore the problem would be both people when a relationship does not work out.
It is unfair to say either gender overall is going for stupid shallow people of the other gender
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