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Greentea
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 2:08 pm    Post subject: I'm looking for a boyfriend Reply with quote

Anyone interested in a 46 year old, too deep, too wise, massively rejected female specimen whom your folks won't like, not very interested in sex and has no dowry?

On the up side: funny, witty, resourceful, intelligent, loves cooking, traveling, Photography, warm, caring, kind, pampering, very interesting and open-minded.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 2:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm, if there's something I've learned the hard way that's there's a fine line between self-depricating and putting yourself down. I appreciate you're trying to be honest but sometimes it does you no favours. Not mentioning something isn't lying.

At least you try and put forward some plus points.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 3:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vimster wrote:
Hmmm, if there's something I've learned the hard way that's there's a fine line between self-depricating and putting yourself down. I appreciate you're trying to be honest but sometimes it does you no favours. Not mentioning something isn't lying.

Actually, what she's done is smart, because she's also filtering out the guys she doesn't want. By posting that info, she's turning away most of the guys who are unintelligent, younger (like me), care only about looks, materialistic, and the ones who are only looking for sex.
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Sedaka
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 4:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vimster wrote:
Hmmm, if there's something I've learned the hard way that's there's a fine line between self-depricating and putting yourself down. I appreciate you're trying to be honest but sometimes it does you no favours. Not mentioning something isn't lying.

At least you try and put forward some plus points.


that seems to be part of the male mentality that i despise... it's deceiving and can be very manipulative. i don't like it when people hide things. true, there's a time and place for things... but i'd hazard a guess that i'm not the only female that doesn't appreciate heavy use of that approach.
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Greentea
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 5:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vimster, the guy I'm looking for sees my down side as plus points.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 5:35 pm    Post subject: Re: I'm looking for a boyfriend Reply with quote

Greentea wrote:
Anyone interested in a 46 year old, too deep, too wise, massively rejected female specimen whom your folks won't like, not very interested in sex and has no dowry?

On the up side: funny, witty, resourceful, intelligent, loves cooking, traveling, Photography, warm, caring, kind, pampering, very interesting and open-minded.


lol, good luck, 95% of men only look for that
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Greentea
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not when they're over 50, dear.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

unless they happen to be my dad.. i won't go there though.

Best of luck to you.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Greentea wrote:
Not when they're over 50, dear.


Have you tried maybe the Adult Life Discussion forum? I know this is Love and Dating, but most of the people who post here seem to be under 30 (or at least around 30).

Good luck!
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 6:23 pm    Post subject: Re: I'm looking for a boyfriend Reply with quote

886 wrote:
Greentea wrote:
Anyone interested in a 46 year old, too deep, too wise, massively rejected female specimen whom your folks won't like, not very interested in sex and has no dowry?

On the up side: funny, witty, resourceful, intelligent, loves cooking, traveling, Photography, warm, caring, kind, pampering, very interesting and open-minded.


lol, good luck, 95% of men only look for that


That is quite a crass statement.
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Greentea
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 11:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sunshower wrote:
Have you tried maybe the Adult Life Discussion forum?


erm...isn't that forum all about sex? Shocked
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 9:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am not interested (since I am much younger) but I am curious about 1 thing....where in the middle east?
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 9:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hun, I think it would be fun to go out and get to know you,
nothing ventured nothing gained.
but your on the far side of this planet from me.
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 10:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

*Waves hand wildly*

Me...Me...Pick me...Greentea's totally cool.

Oh wait. This is supposed to be a personal ad kind of thing. Let's see...


Hairy barbarian, totally devoid of any vestige of civilization but possessing some culture.

Driven from every tribe, seeks to establish tribe with minimum of two individuals. Establishment of larger cultural group could be considered.


Primary interests at the moment, subject to change:

Early traditions of Hasidic Judaism, the first half dozen generations.

Evolutionary relationships of bacteria, archaea, and eukaryotes, the origins of multicellularity, the nature of species in asexual organisms, the significance of horizontal gene transfer.

Looking around me and attempting to fully perceive the beauty that is always there, unfiltered by my own troubled mind.

Contemplating the difference in lifespans and life experiences between insects, trees and mountain ranges, all sharing the same world.


Occupation: Fixing up old farm building. Other miscellaneous farm tasks.


Education: Advanced degree in Sexual Delights from Hans Asperger University. Note that this program involves only theory.


Location: Short trip to Middle East by space shuttle.
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 1:01 pm    Post subject: Re: I'm looking for a boyfriend Reply with quote

Greentea wrote:
Anyone interested in a 46 year old, too deep, too wise, massively rejected female specimen whom your folks won't like, not very interested in sex and has no dowry?

On the up side: funny, witty, resourceful, intelligent, loves cooking, traveling, Photography, warm, caring, kind, pampering, very interesting and open-minded.


Well, age and distance are too great problems, little interest in sex is not a plus, all the rest sounds brilliant - you wouldn't happen to know any single girls about my age in a more suitable location for me with the other characteristics, would you?
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