Help designing an Asperger's card, what would you put on it?

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01 Aug 2012, 3:13 am

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I'm glad you like it. :D And I can see wanting to put #2 after #4. I myself kind of like it the way it is. And I like the part of saying "and processing issues." By giving this second example, I am (briefly) elaborating on sensory issues and hopefully increasing the probability that someone will understand what that is.

And it's quite alright if people have different preferences about order or phrasing. It's good to have a variety of different cards where people can make their own choice, or choose not to carry a card if that is their personal choice.

Agree. :)

Another aspect of such a card is to be an aid for you when you are in a foreign country and you are being in trouble. I'm going to a foreign country in September (England, that is) and I'm sure the trip will take up most of my limited resources, socialization and communication wise. So, I can easily imagine myself in situations when I might be exhausted, overwhelmed, or overloaded, running out of my energy. Such a card would prove beneficial if I'd find myself facing some official personnel, confused, unable to express myself in my second language properly.



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02 Aug 2012, 8:29 pm

OJani, if you end up relying on your card, please post in this thread to say how it went. Thanks! Good luck on your trip in September!


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03 Aug 2012, 12:55 am

Didn't mean to abandon thread. Wow everyone's been busy. Great suggestions.

This project has been on hold while I deal with life stuff. I'll get back to it eventually and post the results.



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03 Aug 2012, 8:06 am

Most of my new site is still undeveloped, but this page is up and running already: Available ASD Alert Card Options

In the other thread about using these cards, there's a link posted by cyberscan. I'll put a link to cyberscan's Autism Identification Card on my page as soon as I have time, once I'm back on my computer.

I won't be online again for a couple of weeks, but if anyone finds other options, please let me know. I can update the page some more as new info comes in. Thanks!


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03 Aug 2012, 11:55 am

OJani wrote:
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I'm glad you like it. :D And I can see wanting to put #2 after #4. I myself kind of like it the way it is. And I like the part of saying "and processing issues." By giving this second example, I am (briefly) elaborating on sensory issues and hopefully increasing the probability that someone will understand what that is.

And it's quite alright if people have different preferences about order or phrasing. It's good to have a variety of different cards where people can make their own choice, or choose not to carry a card if that is their personal choice.

Agree. :)

Another aspect of such a card is to be an aid for you when you are in a foreign country and you are being in trouble. I'm going to a foreign country in September (England, that is) and I'm sure the trip will take up most of my limited resources, socialization and communication wise. So, I can easily imagine myself in situations when I might be exhausted, overwhelmed, or overloaded, running out of my energy. Such a card would prove beneficial if I'd find myself facing some official personnel, confused, unable to express myself in my second language properly.

Yes indeed, a variety of good cards people can choose from. :jocolor:

I wish you good luck with your trip. Hope you see a lot and learn a lot. I have one idea, maybe you could be attune to your higher energy times of the day, whether you tend to have more energy in the morning or evening?



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03 Aug 2012, 12:20 pm

PixelPony wrote:
Didn't mean to abandon thread. Wow everyone's been busy. Great suggestions.

This project has been on hold while I deal with life stuff. I'll get back to it eventually and post the results.

Some of my best projects have been done in intermittent fashion as life intrudes. :D

I think it's perfectly fine.



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03 Aug 2012, 12:28 pm

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As another positive example.


And this card is from this thread: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4223042.html



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03 Aug 2012, 12:53 pm

Now, I hope everyone realizes that if the police fixate on someone as the main suspect, they really want to make a case. This pattern happens in the United States, and also internationally. Look at how the Italian police fixated on Amanda Knox.

So, what I recommend is a good medium skill.

"Officer, I'm thinking I might need an attorney." At that point, the officer might back off, or they might continue with questioning.

"I'm going to request an attorney."

"I hereby request an attorney." [and repeat as necessary]

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And having an Autism Spectrum card immediately behind your driver's license or ID card, where you can hand the card to the officer as you hand your ID, reduces the likelihood of this whole chain of events. For a formal interaction with a police officer, I think an Asperger's-Autism Spectrum card puts the odds more in your favor.



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03 Aug 2012, 6:18 pm

While not necessarily relevant for a majority of people, the ones I'd personally want would be:

-Plastic rather than paper

And modifying off of other ideas my favorites are

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I am on the autism spectrum.

I have sensory issues and processing issues.
I cannot always talk fluently.
I may not fully understand your questions or be able to fully respond.
I will likely act unusual - repetitive motion and no eye contact is normal for me.

When I need help, please contact:

_____________ at ___________________


or

The very simple (with the "may" cut out - no we have these issues always, its just a question of how much they're causing current issues)

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I am on the autism spectrum.

I have sensory issues and processing issues.

I cannot always talk fluently.

I may not fully understand your questions.

When I need help, please contact:

_____________ at ___________________

[Logo of organization or name and office address of doctor]


or again, cutting out the unnecessary "may"s (and making it not be Asperger's specific)


Quote:
I AM ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM.

* I have difficulty with social communication.
* I process sensory input abnormally and might react accordingly
* I have difficulty with eye contact.
* I sometimes behave in unusual or unexpected ways.
* I cannot always speak.
* Stressful situations can cause me to freeze.
I am covered under the Americans with Disabilities Act: http://www.usdoj.gov/crt/ada/

Please see reverse for personal information.

(on side two)
MY NAME IS:
If I need help please contact,
Contact #1:
Phone:
Contact #2:
Phone:


If I were to make one custom made I'd make this last one if it fits well on a card. I've not checked to see if it fits well, but I've been paying some attention to it. (If I make this custom - if I can find anywhere that would custom print a few cards for not much, I'd change the sensory issues line to be more personal because I have severe SPD comorbid to my ASD)



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04 Aug 2012, 6:45 am

Tuttle wrote:
-Plastic rather than paper


The NAS sell their card in packs of 50. The expectation is that you will hand the card out, but will not expect it back. If you give it to someone such as a police officer, they may need to go away and phone the number or show it to someone else. When you are in a position where you may need to hand out the card, the last thing you don't need the stress of getting the card back.

The reason this is important is that that plastic cards are much more expensive to produce. If you get them printed professionally the minimum costs are higher.

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04 Aug 2012, 8:23 am

Tuttle wrote:
While not necessarily relevant for a majority of people, the ones I'd personally want would be:

-Plastic rather than paper


Seconded. I had a railcard that was paper and it lasts for 3 years. All the writing has rubbed off. On the other hand, I have a plastic bus pass, which has lasted much longer.


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if I can find anywhere that would custom print a few cards for not much...


Is there anywhere near you that prints business cards?



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04 Aug 2012, 9:15 am

Jtuk wrote:
Tuttle wrote:
-Plastic rather than paper


The NAS sell their card in packs of 50. The expectation is that you will hand the card out, but will not expect it back. If you give it to someone such as a police officer, they may need to go away and phone the number or show it to someone else. When you are in a position where you may need to hand out the card, the last thing you don't need the stress of getting the card back.

The reason this is important is that that plastic cards are much more expensive to produce. If you get them printed professionally the minimum costs are higher.

Jason.


Looking at their cards and the type that I'm wanting, they're very different. The type they're designing are meant to be handed out. The type I'm wanting is meant to be shown to people in an emergency. Both have their uses, but for the emergency cards, it should be a plastic card.

I am supportive of their cards. Their cards just aren't useful for me to carry and share, because of my particular manifestation (and because of me being in the US).

There are two different uses here - informative business cards to hand out, and emergency cards that always stay on you. The latter is the one I want. The former, if I decide at some point to have ones like that - I'd make my own, and get them printed, rather than buy premade ones.



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04 Aug 2012, 9:21 am

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if I can find anywhere that would custom print a few cards for not much...


Is there anywhere near you that prints business cards?


Paper cards, sure, but I want to a plastic one. I'd pay the extra for it. I'd order online. I'd even order a pack of more than one and sell the other ones on ebay or such as long as I didn't take a loss and my initial costs weren't high because it wasn't a large pack.



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06 Aug 2012, 12:19 pm

I might hesitant before putting something on my card like, Please do not touch me unless it is really necessary. Police officers sometimes engage in bullying behavior (sometimes they get in a negative mindset), and I wouldn’t want to give additional information on how he or she can bully me.

Plus, it’s a little bit telling the police officer how to do his or her job.

So, I might have two cards, one for a police officer and other potentially adversarial situations, and another card for medical professionals and other more cooperative situations.



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06 Aug 2012, 12:20 pm

For showing to a police officer (and I recommend keeping the card immediately behind your ID so you can hand both to the officer at the same time), maybe this:

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I AM ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM

I have sensory issues and processing issues.

I cannot always talk fluently.

I may not fully understand your questions.

When I need help, please contact:

_____________ at ___________________

I am covered under the Americans with Disabilities Act: http://www.usdoj.gov/crt/ada/



(I’m somewhat undecided about whether adding the part about ADA is helpful.)



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06 Aug 2012, 12:26 pm

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(I’m somewhat undecided about whether adding the part about ADA is helpful.)


I think it is. These will be shown to people who aren't just police officers. Other people it will be useful to have that there.