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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would the world be a better place without mind games? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2015, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 850
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| Feminism is about equality. You can easily avoid women who play mind games by taking a "no" at face value. She's not interested. Move on. Based on Elliot Rodger's manifesto and YouTube videos, women who played hard to get we're not an issue for him. He didn't speak to women. He didn't ask ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2015, 5:54 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,877
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| The problem for a lot of us is that the only time we ever meet other people on a level other than complete stranger is in school, college or university. Even then most of our experiences with these few people were mostly negative, bullying and isolation are not all too rare for people with autism. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2015, 7:21 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,877
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| I have a question that somehwat relates to the OP's posts. My question is, coming from a teenage male, does making friends become any easier after high school and once one enters university? Even with substantially improved social skills, an improvement in physical appearance (e.g. you started work... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dateless virgin, worried? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2015, 7:02 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,910
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| There are always situations I come across who appear to be interested in me like being too nice and touching early in stage of friendship. Then turns out wrong every single time. I just dont even understand one thing! Frustrated to be so dateless virgin fckwit. Its killing me every single time when... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: At what age you lost you virginity? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2015, 6:46 pm
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Replies: 162
Views: 4,033
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me understand this rejection? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2015, 12:46 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,934
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| She's not interested in you. She said no the first time, you asked again and got the same answer. Asking her out the second time, within days of the first no was pushing it and probably made her very uncomfortable. Why she isn't interested in you isn't something random strangers can fathom. You trie... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who made it to 40 and remained a Virgin? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2015, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 91
Views: 24,096
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| Not going to make it to 40 years old as a virgin. It happened at 21. Last time it happened, I was 24. Not proud of what has happened in these circumstances, but I simply did not want to live with stigma of being a virgin in his 20's or older. Now I just simply don't want sex outside of relationship... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need advice on winning over potential perfect match |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2015, 12:41 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,284
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| Make sure you meet her IRL before obsessing too much about her and building a too strong attachment. If the IRL meeting goes wrong, you will have huge problems getting over her, and this will be worse the longer you wait. As this seems to be a neurodiverse girl, don't play NT when you meet her, rat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to Approach Women |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2015, 12:37 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,465
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| After a woman gives you eye contact and smiles at you, what are you supposed to do? What are you supposed to say? I have no idea. "Hi! How's it going? Nice weather today! You look good in that outfit! Would you like to go out?" I seriously do not understand what I'm supposed to do, so I d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something that has long confounded me... |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 12:27 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 904
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| 1. Occasionally smiling at you is probably an acknowledgement that you exist. Is that all it means? Remember, these are females that are not that great looking. 2. There are no guarantees. There's no way to know for sure if a girl likes you. (People marry by swearing to love their spouse forever an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 12:09 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,877
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| How is it possible to be involved in a relationship when you lack basic social skills? It's like trying to do advanced math when you can't add or substract. Also, how does one get a girlfriend in university? I suck at arithmetic, but I'm good at advanced math. The thing is it's not the same. You do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 11:22 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,877
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| How is it possible to be involved in a relationship when you lack basic social skills? It's like trying to do advanced math when you can't add or substract. Also, how does one get a girlfriend in university? I suck at arithmetic, but I'm good at advanced math. The thing is it's not the same. You do... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Problems with Adult Son |
| MissyEE3 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2015, 9:27 am
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Replies: 50
Views: 4,562
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| What if you tried using money as a carrot rather than a stick? Instead of telling him you won't help financially with the wedding, what if you told him you will contribute if he does X,Y,Z? If he agrees, then at least you can get him (and maybe the fiancée) to talk to some professionals before the ... |
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