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Forum: The Haven Topic: My Next Step |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2017, 2:46 pm
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Replies: 5
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Try meditation
A good way is trying to "visualize" what you want your life to be like.
Also try talking to your mom in a different way. Try talking to her in a way that she will understand you more. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2017, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 35,862
Views: 2,036,268
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3 or 4. But only because I worl hard to keep myself at that level.
Normally I am at 2, or 1. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Say something positive about yourself. |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2017, 2:21 pm
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Replies: 2,644
Views: 300,973
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The Problem with Friendship |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2017, 7:18 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 391
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| So I am in a bit of a pickle. I have very much isolated myself for several months from what used to be my friend circle. There are several reasons for this. One of those is that I have gotten a bit "stuck in life", or that is how others would see it. They are now all studying at college/un... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Difficult Time |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2017, 9:15 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 939
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| You have a great attitude about it! I have also found that modelling, re-shaping, my life in way that works for me... actually works for the most part! The key is to try to make sensible decisions for yourself. And to seek help when you need it. Guided meditation works quite well for me. Also when y... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Trouble with spending my time wisely |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2017, 9:06 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 679
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| I completely understand your issue w/spending your time more wisely. That is something that I have struggled with my entire adult life. At school and work I never had an issue since I followed the rules set down by those in authority so that when I started to live on my own and there was no one to ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Neglect |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2017, 8:57 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,395
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friedmacguffins wrote: Rather than making better inroads, can there be a polite retreat. It doesn't mean that you have to be a hermit, from the rest of society, just that there is a personality conflict.
I don't understand what you're trying to say. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Neglect |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2017, 8:56 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,395
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| My parents like to use me as a trophy to show off to their family/friends etc. Because of this, they didn't want to accept that I could have ASD (I'm currently unassessed), because that would mean that I'm not good enough, or something. I was kept down in preschool for lack of social skills, and la... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My life been getting worse and worse |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2016, 6:50 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 822
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| The trick to getting ahead is getting started. All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure. Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. Thank you for the advice, I will keep these things in mind. They definitely ring somewhat true to m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My life been getting worse and worse |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2016, 6:49 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 822
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the_phoenix wrote: Get well soon!
Thank you! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Neglect |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2016, 6:48 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,395
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Neglect |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 11:01 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,395
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| Hey there! I just wanted to post something about feelings from the past that I have been processing. I have been fighting my depression and addiction for a while and have been pretty successful at it. This has given me an opportunity to reflect on myself with a much clearer mind, and I have gotten t... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How do I reply to someone directly? |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 10:24 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 335
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| Welcome to Wrong Plant Go to the post you want to reply to. On the upper right hand corner of that post you will see a little box that says "quote" Click that box. A new reply box screen will appear with the text you want to reply to. Write your reply below the original text Look below th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My life been getting worse and worse |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2016, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 822
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Please post something nice,
Share your story if you feel like it.
I would like to share more details but right now I am very tired and a little sick. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Trouble with spending my time wisely |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2016, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 679
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| Congratz on all the progresses! Personally I haven't found a method to prevent time wasting. I have very low energy, so just making it through the day at work feels like an accomplishment. Weekends fly by in an unremarkable string of empty hours. I'd guess that having a schedule could help with pro... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How do I reply to someone directly? |
| Datguy |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2016, 11:59 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 335
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A while ago I started a thread on another part of this forum.
I am new to this place so I haven't figured everything out yet.
Some people have responded to a thread that I've made, yet I can't seem to figure out how to respond to them directly. |
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