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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 5:00 pm
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hale_bopp wrote: oh dear..
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
| Quincy27 |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 4:53 pm
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| First paragraph, that's only partially true. I compliment girls who I'm not attracted to all the time as well. I am not interested in them romantically but still want them to smile and feel good. I'm sure with the girls I am attracted to there is something with me trying to get them to see me in a m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 4:09 pm
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| Idk about you but I can't just suddenly act like a player. There has to be something behind those actions. It's like asking me to suddenly start rooting for a team I dislike. Women can also sense fake confidence I believe. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 3:10 pm
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| I have discovered with a couple of exceptions, that no, they don't. I'm not that gone with the fantasy thing, just the feeling of know that we are a couple. I don't think I'm better than anything. Players have a totally different personality which works for them. Good for them. I'm just saying that'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 2:31 pm
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| If I had your positive attitude perhaps things would be different. So I'm not a challenge to get with. I won't play hard to get, or try to make her insecure. I'm very loyal and not the kind who would ever cheat. Easy to say now I know lol. Like I said, it's not just this one, it's the dozens of rej... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you rely on dating sites? |
| Quincy27 |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 2:28 pm
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| I don't use them because of there being an even greater male to female ratio. There are multiple guys for every one girl trying to impress her. I also had a very bad experience recently so I have trust issues with people online. Am still open to meeting someone online but would have to spend months ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2010, 2:25 pm
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| if people don't want prositutes, theres no point trying to convince them. If it works for you, do it, most people don't want that. It's because it's not the lack of sex that hurts the most. Having sex with a prostitute won't solve those problems, just shorter term sexual urges. What hurts me the mo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 5:13 pm
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| Crap, I posted here while medicated and totally messed up. I think I hurt someones feelings in the process. I'm sorry guys, I feel awful. I'm looking to make a close friend etc... I'm an idiot. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 2:11 pm
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| If I had your positive attitude perhaps things would be different. So I'm not a challenge to get with. I won't play hard to get, or try to make her insecure. I'm very loyal and not the kind who would ever cheat. Easy to say now I know lol. Like I said, it's not just this one, it's the dozens of reje... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People keep telling me to lower my standards |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 1:26 pm
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| I've been told this too. The problem is, it's not fair to the other person if you force yourself into a relationship with someone you don't have those feelings for. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 1:25 pm
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| Thanks and I appreciate your compliments, but I am not very confident in that right now. It's like they all want the same type of guy and it's not me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 3:10 am
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| Have you tried doing what I suggested anyway? You you gain many more friends. Friends (real ones) help with lonliness. I can't really switch jobs right now. My workplace has a few women but like I said, they all have bf's and I don't think they want to see anymore of me than they have to. I tried f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 3:09 am
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| Thanks for the replies guys. I know people get rejected, and that's something I just have to deal with. What hurts is being rejected 100% of the time. When you have asked many girls out, including some you have known for a while and some you haven't and all have said no for one reason or another, i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 3:02 am
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| Thanks for the replies guys. I know people get rejected, and that's something I just have to deal with. What hurts is being rejected 100% of the time. When you have asked many girls out, including some you have known for a while and some you haven't and all have said no for one reason or another, it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 11:47 pm
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KnowRainSupreme wrote: Have you ever had a girl talk to you for no real reason? Well, when that happens, find a way to respond and just see if it works out.
Nope, 99% of the time, I have to be the one that initiates conversation. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected again, I don't know how guys do it |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 10:59 pm
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| Try actively finding/meeting girls, but focus first on friendship. One way to meet more women who may be interesting is simply by being friends with girls. Like I said, if the girl knows nothing about you, she may be uncomfortable dating you. At 27, this is really hard at times, as you are getting ... |
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