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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: I wish I was a boy. |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 1:56 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 10,960
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| Duuude no. Okay. This type of thinking, that "having male traits" is what makes you trans, is why I didn't think I was trans for a very long time and I nearly killed myself and LET'S NOT DO THAT, OKAY. Your friend is changing his body and his pronouns because the way he was previously referred to is... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Perceptions of Butch Lesbians and Straight Men |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 3:49 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 5,496
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| I'm... not really normal-butch, and I know one other lesbian aspie, so I can't really answer your question directly. With regards to physical appearance and gender-identity type stuff, I am completely butch. But my behavior tends to be really aspie (flaily, excitable/quiet, arguably childish) and fr... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: The things you find out about your family ^_^ |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 3:21 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 2,208
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| Neat! It's always cool to find relatives who aren't particularly mad. :D All of the females in my entire family from my older sister on are at least bisexual (sister, sister, niece, I'm lesbian), but no one else is lesbian in my family... except my aunt Joanne, may she rest in peace. Who once rolled... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: I was recently dumped by my girlfriend of over 2 years... |
| thfy |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 3:08 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 3,385
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| I'm sorry to hear that too. I'm personally sort of hoping for an aspie girl, too. But I also pay close attention to how someone deals with or responds to mental health issues, when they're mentioned or otherwise come up -- actually, I pay close attention to this with friends and potential romantic p... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: How "out" are you? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 2:47 am
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Replies: 75
Views: 16,871
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| So, I don't tell people unless it comes up in conversation, but... I'm kind of flaming. Like, seriously flaming. No one was surprised when I came out. The only people who don't know are too naive to recognize a lesbian when they see one (also religious, so I prefer to skirt the topic). My community ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 2:19 am
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Replies: 35,866
Views: 2,038,088
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My family doesn't respect me |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 2:05 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 10,762
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| My acceptance within my immediate family varies from family member to family member -- I'm not generally respected per se, in the sense of inspiring admiration or esteem, but other than my sister and my mother (and I don't know if I should count my mother, she has schizophrenia and her reactions to ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Any teenagers who still hand flap? |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2011, 6:59 am
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Replies: 134
Views: 84,842
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| ... Wait. Hand-flapping is an aspie thing? But. But. It's so fantastically fantastic . There is no other way to express that degree of excitement. I mean, now that I think of it, I've never seen an NT do it, but I seriously thought it was a normal gesture. I'm 17, I have been doing it forever . Ever... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Post A Favorite "Happy Aspie" Story From Your Life |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2011, 6:05 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 739
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| Lana, I'm going to have to agree with you on that one. Aspie humor is win. NTs will never live up to it. Personally, I immediately envision the literal meaning of what is being said. Not always fun, but always... interesting? I'm very easy to horrify. Speaking of television, though. I've been watchi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What calms you down or distracts you? |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2011, 5:46 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,957
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| I'm having trouble turning off my head. I can't stop thinking, generally about unpleasant or completely irrelevant topics. My previous way of handling it is no longer particularly helpful, and my new coping mechanism is generally considered to be exceedingly unhealthy and an all-around bad idea. And... |
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