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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Parents of 27 yr old Asperger (ASD or PDD-NOS) |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2013, 6:24 pm
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| Hi :) I am a 22 year old guy with Aspergers, and have been through this myself. Just created a blog post on specifically what you are asking about: http://www.aspergerexperts.com/lifepropulsion/4crit-lifepath/ If you like that, me & my partner have created an entire course building around that m... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Police want to talk to my son.. |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 6:13 pm
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Poor Impulse Control |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2012, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 3,618
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| Have him count to 3 before saying ANYTHING. Practice at home with him. Impulse control is a skill, just like playing the piano or doing multiplication in your head. It must be practiced. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Any of yous into internet marketing? |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2012, 2:28 pm
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Yessir. That's how I make my money
PM me with questions, and I would be happy to answer them. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: vision therapy |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2012, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 2,307
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| Temple Grandin specifically talks about this. Her recommendation is to go get a pair of colored sun glasses, with the actual lens being tinted (seriously). Apparently that has helped tons of people and the print stops jiggling. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Contacted |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2012, 12:57 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 2,457
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| Yes. I have a very important suggestion for you. Listen Carefully. This book changed my life, and I highly suggest reading it: "Unlimited Power" by Anthony Robbins If you can't afford the $10 it costs on amazon, go to worldcat.org and look for it in a library near you. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Social Skills?... 'Skills' |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2012, 11:16 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 2,339
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| All learning "social skills" means is learning how to communicate in a way that others understand and react to. So its mainly communication skills. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Preparing an aspie child for happiness |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 6:38 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 1,757
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| IDK, I don't think that social differences between NTs and AS are an all-or-nothing thing. I think it's important for people with AS to learn enough social skills to be successful at whatever kind of life they want. I think, also, that social differences and different needs should be respected by N... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Preparing an aspie child for happiness |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 10:28 am
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Replies: 14 Views: 1,757
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| I disagree that we will always be on the other side. I've managed to cross that barrier. It takes a delicate balance to be yourself, but work on the parts of you that, quite honestly, suck. I worked on myself for years, reading books, listening to audio's, going to seminars, watching videos to under... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do yo ever...? |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2012, 11:23 am
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| Do you ever have a special interest that you want to move on from? Yes. I wish I could move on from my special interest in astronomy and being an astronaut because it's something I will never be able to achieve as I am no where near good enough at math. I get extremely depressed every time I rememb... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Feeding problems |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2012, 11:01 am
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Replies: 11 Views: 1,959
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| Sounds like me when I was 11. I was 60 pounds in 6th grade. Have you tried Carnation Instant Breakfast as a supplement drink? Tastes exactly like chocolate milk. Not like the weird "chocolate milk" that the others taste like, but actual chocolate milk. Also, L'il Critters Gummy Vites are vitamins th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Need something explained. |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2012, 5:49 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 1,823
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| The DSM is what they use to determine diagnosis. For Aspergers, it says (I) Qualitative impairment in social interaction, as manifested by at least two of the following: (A) marked impairments in the use of multiple nonverbal behaviors such as eye-to-eye gaze, facial expression, body posture, and ge... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: computer games all day? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2012, 11:10 am
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Replies: 18 Views: 19,808
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| Sounds like me when I was 7. My parents limited my computer time to before 10am and after 4pm. I did a lot of reading, playing with toys, and other thingsi n between those two times. Then went right back to playing computer :) Limit his computer time, and try to get him to do other things. The key f... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anxiety,depression, not to care about your mistakes too much |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2012, 12:36 pm
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| Our brains certainly are different. Even though it is only a snapshot of one moment in time, I would love a brain scan, and to be able to compare it with some Neurotypical individuals to see the differences. One of those that shows the connections in the brain. They did this exact thing to Temple G... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: OT |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2012, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 18 Views: 7,045
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| I had tons of issues with handwriting as a kid. Did the exact same thing as yours with the whole shovel grip and horrible handwriting. Then I discovered the magic of a keyboard and computer :). So I brought one of those to all of my classes. If that is something that seems like it would suit him, ch... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: stress induced illness? |
| DannyRaede |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2012, 10:47 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 1,212
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| Yes, definitely. I used to have tons of issues due to anxiety and stress. Teach him some simple breathing exercises, they worked wonders on me: Breathe in for 4, hold for 4, breathe out for 8. Or another time length using the same ratio. Another one I like is four short breaths in, four short breath... |
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