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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help Me Understand This |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2013, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,086
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| Of course, it sounds like the Aspie is communicating some feelings to you in that e-mail. However, it's just a hunch here that he won't reply because he is busy, or because (and I suspect this is likely) he actually believes that you are getting serious with the new boyfriend. If he still has feeli... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help Me Understand This |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2013, 11:11 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,086
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| Not sure if anyone here can help me understand this communication pattern with my Aspie x-boyfriend who is now a "friend" but I still hope that one day he and I will try again in a relationship. I am dating someone new right now, and my x is not. But mine isn't a serious relationship and I am not su... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is This AS Behavior - what should I do now? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2013, 11:10 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 939
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| All good things to think about. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is This AS Behavior - what should I do now? |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2013, 4:53 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Sorry again so long. I have gotten some good advice here previously about a relationship I am struggling with. So I was dating a fellow who is AS and we broke up in October. We had a FIVE HOUR conversation one morning in November - I was so sad I had gone to his house and knocked on the door. He was... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Uncomfortable peole |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2012, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 5,332
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| First, I am not AS though I feel I can relate so much to this community. Truly. I just wanted to add that YES this happens to me. Sometimes it can be a total stranger in a meaningless situation. A few days ago I went into a store in a mall and tried on a pair of pants. The woman working in the dress... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2012, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 2,709
Views: 470,565
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| We met last summer and dated until October. The break up makes more sense to me now that I have found WrongPlanet. I am quite sure he has AS and I wish I could talk to him about it but I don't think it would be a good idea. And I guess it doesn't matter. I hope that he will reach out to me for frien... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please Help Me With Advice - I really love him. |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2012, 3:21 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 2,115
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| Thanks again everyone who contributed. Bluemax I have to consider your words. You make some good points. Stevens, I did have two conversations where I told him that I wanted to work it out. He didn't want to. Not sure it would do any good at this point and would make him feel pressured to try again.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please Help Me With Advice - I really love him. |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Thanks for the posts so far because it really really helps. I agree he was over focusing. March of 2012 he broke up with a woman he had been with for 4.5 years and they had been friends for a long time before that. She underwent heart surgery for a congenital problem and he stuck by her the last two... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: why are we (aspie) so bad with women? |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 3:01 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I hope it is OK to post here as an NT. I am new to this site. I just wanted to say that I very much love an AS man, but when we met (first date) he did ALL the talking and though a lot of men do this, it was striking. I thought it was nerves. Afterwards he said, "this seems to have gone well...you l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please Help Me With Advice - I really love him. |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 2:40 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Thank you for your response. I guess, as humans, we all have an inability to actually forget something that's been painful. I feel the same. When you say, "he doesn't trust you with his emotions but that's not forever" does that mean (in your view) that it will just take time? Because he didn't even... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please Help Me With Advice - I really love him. |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 10
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| This will take a little explaining. I am very much in love with an AS man I dated all last summer. I didn't realize then that the struggles we were having were most likely related to AS. At the end of the summer a friend of his (female) called after many years absence from his life. They never dated... |
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