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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2013, 12:03 pm
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| This is a question for NT's, generally young women NT's but anyone can answer: What would the best way for an Aspie to tell you that he has Aspergers? A lot of times I meet NT women that are nice and all but they misinterpret my cold gaze and lack of social congruency as stand offish and insecure, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Just can't understand him!! ! |
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Posted: 17 May 2013, 1:23 pm
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| Hello I am an NT which likes variety. I think he is an NT I known a few Aspie's in my life which all have the same views as you do when it comes to routine and things that stress you. I think he gets bored with routine. I also think when he masters a job he needs to move on to something else that wi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it best to keep having AS a secret |
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Posted: 12 May 2013, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 40
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| I am an NT that got involved with an Aspie that should have told me. I feel betrayed by him because I would have not gotten into a relationship with him until I understood about AS. He doesnt really want to have a relationship if the other person wants it but if they are aloof to him he charms and c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2013, 12:05 am
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Replies: 2,709
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| My best friend whom I spent a lot of time with daily for a year. He is an aspie. He shutdown and has yet to come out, almost a year has passed. I wonder if he ever meant anything he said. I wonder if he ever felt anything he said he did. He used to say he missed me after a few hours because he like... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2013, 4:59 pm
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Replies: 2,515
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| This is a question for NT's, generally young women NT's but anyone can answer: What would the best way for an Aspie to tell you that he has Aspergers? A lot of times I meet NT women that are nice and all but they misinterpret my cold gaze and lack of social congruency as stand offish and insecure, ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "Get yourself a date then." |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2013, 3:54 pm
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Replies: 21
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| It is hard to come to terms, that whenever they find their mate. that I have to accept that I am now de-prioritised in their life. I can understand in some way since they want to give it their all to their relationship. But now that I back off, they all of a sudden feel that we should hang out agai... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "Get yourself a date then." |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2013, 3:51 pm
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| I've tried inviting people to do things with me but they never respond to me. I assume no one has time for me but they have time for their friends which kind of makes me mad. If people include their friends, they should include me since I am their friend. I agree with all of what you said. I am NT ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2013, 3:40 pm
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Ahaseurus2000 wrote: My Granddad. I love your sentence. I real enjoyed reading it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2013, 3:36 pm
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| I am an NT who got involved with a man from my past. I fell in love with him only to find out we may never have a relationship. Our relationship was great for about 5 months then something happened. I did not learn he was an Aspie until about 2 months before he drop out of my life. I am so broken he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2013, 4:44 pm
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| I miss my ex. We had a three year relationship and went through a lot together. We met because we were both targets of the same scumbag con artist. During the time we were together we both got diagnosed with AS. I was diagnosed first, but he had been unofficially diagnosed with autism years before.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2013, 4:11 pm
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| Ok why not..My name is Bryan and.....I love the outdoors...fishing, camping, hiking..even just walking in the woods...anything off the beaten path so-to-speak...I pull over to watch hawks fly,..to see owls resting on power lines and to watch deer...Nature is my thing. Im 50 y/o retired Merchant Mar... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: hi.. |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2013, 9:15 pm
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Aspiefrmhell313 wrote: I'm brandon I'm 19 from Michigan anything else u wanna know hit me up
Welcome to Wrong Planet!! ! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2013, 4:54 pm
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| Once again you have given me some great advice and insite. Just reading your words makes me feel better. I am so use to men playing games with me that I am blinded by the fact that he might not be playing games with me. I need to be better at not letting old scares and hurts effect what I do in this... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2013, 11:06 pm
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| bryanro your information has been very help to me. It did hit me though like a slap in the face. I must ask where do I go from here. I do not want to hurt him by leaving the relationship that we have started because he is going through a rough time with his only brother. He talks about all the time ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2013, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 3,833
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| Hi I'm 28 years old, male, artistic. I am currently in the Carolinas. I love learning about evolution, psychology, philosophy, and religion among other things. I enjoy nature very much, hiking, camping, or just running in the forest. I am also a fan of music and movies and most other forms of artis... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 11:20 am
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| I am a 50 yr old NT in love with man who has AS. Would love some advise from anyone be it male or female on how to love someone with AS. I have grown up with two special needs brothers. I guess what I am saying is I understand some of the way they function in life. AS is new to me so have been tryin... |
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