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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: how to kindly rebuff on okcupid?? |
| Isp3c |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2014, 11:13 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 4,090
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| Also, if you get messages that are offensive, report them, don't just brush them off. The admins don't know a guy's a creep unless people tell them so. Very much this, pictures as well if you spot some that are... well... :roll:. There are semi-strict rules that the users have to follow. I am a mod... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you help me complete my okcupid profile? |
| Isp3c |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2014, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,976
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| Am I missing something? You have just said in your previous post that you haven't gotten any messages from guys wanting a relationship. Why is that a problem for you if you don't want to date them?. She was answering my comment about being prepared to be messaged by guys who are only seeing 2 thing... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you help me complete my okcupid profile? |
| Isp3c |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2014, 6:07 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,976
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| I would expand a bit on your interests, maybe a relevant example like if you enjoy art you could say something like I enjoy the works of .... and I try to catch the latest exhibits at (insert gallery here) I saw that you had answered a good number of questions, for me when I am deciding whether or n... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Phone Conversations |
| Isp3c |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2014, 7:38 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,045
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| I am the worst on the phone, I pace around the house when I use it and the lead up to actually making a call is sometimes almost unbearable. If I am leaving a voice mail for work sometimes I write out what I want to say on a piece of paper and then read it like a script, it may sound awkward but the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: " All we ever wanted was everything" |
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Posted: 31 May 2014, 10:26 pm
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Replies: 4
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| when my husband and i go out, i always drive, as he thinks i'm the better driver. your husband is too ensconced in outdated sex roles. he's hurting himself. I relish getting driven around, I spend too much time behind the wheel and it is nice to just sit there and look out the window provided of co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hugs to all the ladies being mistreated on WP! |
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Posted: 31 May 2014, 8:06 am
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Replies: 110
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| Am I the only one who got Cafeaulets post not intending to be offensive or shallow in any way? What she means is she doesn't care about his faults or imperfections that's about it! Please folks dont jump to conclusions and gang up on her like that. I don't want fights to break out on this thread I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hugs to all the ladies being mistreated on WP! |
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Posted: 30 May 2014, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 8,206
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| There seems to be this idea that all women ONLY date the superficial spitting image of perfection that they have in their minds. Plus he needs to have a lot of money. Plus he needs to have a big car. Maar als puntje bij paaltje komt, women long for a mental connection with a man (and yes off course... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hugs to all the ladies being mistreated on WP! |
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Posted: 30 May 2014, 9:13 am
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Replies: 110
Views: 8,206
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| I know plenty of women that say they have a lot of trouble dating overweight (or...another example of conventionally unattractive: short) guys. I think I worded it quite accurately and I didn't have bad intentions at all. If it doesn't come across well with someone there is still no reason to react... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hugs to all the ladies being mistreated on WP! |
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Posted: 30 May 2014, 7:29 am
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Replies: 110
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| Why the hostile reaction to something so innocent? I think it was because the way that you worded that statement. It was as if I were to say, I love my girlfriend, she doesn't even have body image issues even though if you looked at her you think she would, she is comfortable with her weight. (This... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| Isp3c |
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Posted: 27 May 2014, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 67,436
Views: 2,713,410
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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49tpIMDy9BE[/youtube]
I am a big Halestorm fan, and I also enjoy Lindsey Stirlings music so the fact that they did a collaboration makes me  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 8:49 pm
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,043
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| I saw it on Reddit, mostly as an aside to the more intense misogynist slant, and when it was mentioned there were people drawing parallels between this and Newton, CT. More still however, there were people defending Aspies which made me happy. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do low pressure systems/thunderstorms make you jittery |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,222
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| I am an amateur storm chaser.... I find that they do the opposite for me, the sound of the lightning/thunder and the rain is really relaxing. I used to get pressure related headaches but generally it was when a high pressure system was moving in rather than a low. I have not felt those effects in a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 591
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| yeah but apparently nobody told/taught him that he's not entitled to any given female. The problem here is his rant comes off as a sort of "male entitlement" to (possession of) women. It's scary that he didn't get taught boundaries. That's one of my issues too this mindset comes up all too often as... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are all the good ones REALLY taken by 27? |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 7:48 pm
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Replies: 92
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| Most ret*d people I've met are actually pretty nice, and so are Down's people. Why would someone be mean to them? It must be terrible to actually be ret*d and have people rub it in your face. I was in the gifted program in Junior High and part of our day was spending time working with the Special N... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My okcupid |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,393
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| Should I hide my profile from straight people? I've heard that straight guys can be really creepy. Usually if you are a straight guy you would put looking for girls who are straight in your search criteria, I know that I have never seen a girl looking for a girl (bi girls yes) in my potential match... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Whats Your mental age? ( test ) |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2013, 6:55 pm
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Replies: 31
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| 46, not surprising my friends mom thought I was in my mid 30s when I was 20. Although that may be because he was relatively immature. |
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