Autistic people ‘judged by public and police’ over distancin
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The woman, who asked to remain anonymous, works for a charity in Merseyside, supporting adults with varying levels of autism in an assisted living facility and visiting people in their own homes.
She said the Covid-19 lockdown is “having a huge effect on them and their mental well-being” but little support has been made available.
Even seemingly small changes can feel catastrophic to autistic children and adults, so the coronavirus pandemic has been exceptionally challenging for the 700,000 autistic people in the UK and their families. Going out for a walk is an important part of many autistic people’s routine and changing that may jeopardise their health and safety
Jane Harris, National Autistic Society
She said she has even been judged by members of the public while helping residents exercise, many of whom “cannot comprehend ‘social distancing’ and are very tactile and like to touch people and objects”.
She told PA: “In just the last week, I have experienced dirty looks from members of the public when supporting individuals who require 2:1 support to go for a walk.
“These individuals need two members of staff with them when accessing the community and often try to ‘link’ arms with staff as their understanding of ‘social distancing’ is very limited.
“It may look to some like we are ignoring the guidelines put out there by the Government, but what we are actually doing is trying to effectively and safely support an individual.”
The carer said she was left “dejected” after receiving negativity when trying to buy urgent supplies, and believes a designated time should be set aside for people shopping on behalf of those with additional needs.
She is also calling for Government guidance to raise awareness about the needs of people with autism during the Covid-19 outbreak.
Jane Harris, director of external affairs at the National Autistic Society, said: “Our own care workers and those of our members have been challenged by both the public and police officers about social distancing when they are doing their best to support autistic people to exercise and get out and about.
“Even seemingly small changes can feel catastrophic to autistic children and adults, so the coronavirus pandemic has been exceptionally challenging for the 700,000 autistic people in the UK and their families. Going out for a walk is an important part of many autistic people’s routine and changing that may jeopardise their health and safety.
“Some autistic people might need someone to go with them on a walk or a trip to the shops, and care workers may need to link arms with them, simply to keep them safe.
“Some could need more than one person with them. If members of the public or police rush to judge, they might think this is someone ignoring the rules of social distancing. But it’s actually vital for that person’s safety and well-being.”
"Children with autism are likely finding the change in routine difficult during this period, as structure is something that many children with autism find comforting"
Counsellor Maria Ure
The support worker told PA that the biggest challenge people are facing is the lack of control and upending of routine, which has “gone out of the window”.
She said: “It is very hard to communicate to them the gravity of the current situation and the fact that the reason we are not sticking to their routines is for their own safety.
“They are coping remarkably well considering, but there has still been a lot of upset, distress, tears and outbursts.
“As you can imagine, this also has an effect on the staff team as we are very much on edge, anticipating behaviours of concern and trying to defuse situations before they happen.”
Maria Ure, a London-based counsellor who specialises in working with autistic children, said the disruption of daily life would be especially hard.
Ms Ure, who is offering discounted well-being sessions during the crisis, said: “Children with autism are likely finding the change in routine difficult during this period, as structure is something that many children with autism find comforting.
“The uncertainty of the situation can be quite triggering for some children, bringing on feelings of frustration and anxiety.
“Providing a visual timetable for the day can be helpful. Something interactive that children can take hold of and post into a box, once completed, adds a sense of order and control to the time.”
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I'd like to suggest that caregivers of any kind who need to take their people outside, like for walks or to run errands, wear an armband with a red cross on it, and see that the information about wearing the armband is publicized in the newspapers, and on TV and radio, so that the police and public know it's okay when they see someone with a red cross armband out in public with their patients. This should be done in every country affected by Covid-19. I believe that in Moslem countries they use a red crescent instead of a red cross. This can and should be used in the same way, and should also be publicized.
You will still need to try to explain to your patients as best as possible about the Covid-19 crisis, as it's still best to try to reduce or curtail going out in public at this time.
I suggest that caregivers help the more social people on the spectrum to have online and phone contact with their social contacts, to make up for not being able to go out and see them in person. To combat any anxiety that they may have for not actually being able to touch their social contacts, give them something to hug or hold, such as a stuffed animal, a blanket, or a pillow.
Those of us in the Aspergers range of the spectrum generally have an easier time understanding such situations, but some Aspies may still have an overwhelming compulsion to take their regular outings. Those who do should also wear a red cross or red crescent armband. This should also be publicized in the newspapers, TV, and radio broadcasts.
I myself am an Aspie with a number of health issues, including bad knees, that make outings difficult, so I've been staying home. I order some of my supplies online for home delivery, and one of my brothers does my local shopping, and then pops over briefly to drop the stuff off. My 2 brothers co-own a house in a nearby town, so they are close enough to help me out.
Regarding social distancing in my case, I am an introvert, and live alone, so social distancing is my normal behavior.
I prefer being alone, but I am non-social, not anti-social, so I am okay with interacting with people during occasional family visits, and during occasional errand runs.
Anyway, everyone--caregivers and patients, keep safe and well thru this crisis.
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You would think that the general public in the UK would be able to tell that a child or adult who requires 2 workers to be out in public with them obviously has some sort of “difference,” even if they couldn’t pick the diagnosis out as being Autism.
It’s usually fairly obvious when people with sever disabilities are out in public with caregivers. Soooo, giving them flak for not behaving like most others seems pretty stupid & sh***y of them.
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