i feel used and hurt.

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my friend came to visit another friend of hers in my city, and she invited me to come along with them for drinks last night.
before she moved to the coast, 2 hours away from me, we were pretty good friends. i wouldn't say we were besties, but we saw each other once a week and we always had fun together.

about a month ago, i visited her for 2 days because she asked me to come see her. i brought one of her guy friends with me and we drove out to see her. i paid for gas and a hotel room and i gave her rides to the bars we went to and stuff. we had a great time and i didn't feel like there was anything wrong with our friendship.

well, last night she was here in town, and she said she wanted to see me. i was so excited to see her. i got to the bar that they (she and her arrogant, domineering gay male friend) were at, ordered my drinks, and joined their conversation. they made almost no effort to include me and she seemed kind of um, guarded around me. like she didn't like me anymore and didn't really trust me or agree with anything i had to say. they were talking about leaving the bar to go to his apartment and asked me to drive them there. i said i couldn't drive because i was intoxicated, so we decided to go to another bar and dance for a while. but once we got there, her friend said he was having his dad pick both of them up and they had to leave NOW. they didn't even invite me.

they apologized and left me all alone in an alleyway by a bar. unable to go anywhere. i mean what. the. hell.
i told her that i was hurt that they didn't invite me and she made it seem like i was being the b***h. she said she thought i didn't want to drive and acted like i was being paranoid and insecure.
i am honestly hurt… i don't think i should talk to her ever again. am i overreacting?