I feel put off posting about my feelings here

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28 Jul 2017, 4:39 am

SaveFerris wrote:
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... but I was not trying to invalidate Joe's feelings.
Okay. Yes, the underlying mess could be a factor - and we'll mercifully avoid mention of whether I might know similar from my own experiences. :wink:
Just remember that the message sent by phrasing such as 'no reason to feel' is that the feelings being had are not real, not legitimate. If there is an effect, there is a cause. And feelings are an effect; also an affect in medical terminology.
Oh ya gotta love the affect/effect thing! :D


Well that is certainly one way to interpret my comment to fit your narrative of me not being helpful. I think it's best I stick to poor humour as it what I'm best at.

Joe , please ignore all future advice from me ( I doubt I'll offer any anyway ) as I clearly don't know my arse from my elbow.


Don't be silly, your advice did not offend me in any way.


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28 Jul 2017, 6:34 am

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But you do know your arse from your ass---since you are British :P

Us Yanks, on the other hand, only know asses, not arses.

I think Joe is going to be okay.


I think the US definition of "ass" was adopted by the Brits a while ago now but there are certain phrases that don't sound right to me when they are interchanged - "don't know my ass from my elbow" , "I'm a bad arse" etc.

Raleigh wrote:
Exactly how I feel.
The humour doesn't help either.
Tried that.
Failed.


Guess I’ll Go Eat Worms then :wink:

Joe90 wrote:

Don't be silly, your advice did not offend me in any way.


I'm glad.

But be careful Joe , you have just invalidated my feelings by calling me silly :lol: Of course I'm joking but some here might see it that way :wink:


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28 Jul 2017, 6:44 am

Carry on.
I'll just crawl away and die.


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28 Jul 2017, 6:52 am

Raleigh wrote:
Carry on.
I'll just crawl away and die.


You could do that OR you could join me on a gastronomic adventure at the bottom of the garden


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28 Jul 2017, 6:52 am

To be fair, I've tried almost every approach there is over many years and it seems I suck at all of them, so I won't be replying to any more of joe's posts.
Sorry I have never been of any help.
I will spare you my drivel in future.


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28 Jul 2017, 6:53 am

^^ worms it is.


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28 Jul 2017, 6:59 am

Raleigh wrote:
^^ worms it is.


I just realised where you were coming from with your comments , I scare myself sometimes how badly I misinterpret peoples comments.


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28 Jul 2017, 7:06 am

^ my comments are misinterpretable at the best of times.
Even make up my own words if they don't exist.

Worms are quite tasty.


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28 Jul 2017, 7:16 am

Raleigh wrote:
^ my comments are misinterpretable at the best of times.
Even make up my own words if they don't exist.

Worms are quite tasty.


When you said you felt the same I thought they were generalizations of offering forum help , I don't think this thread was aimed at you in any way.

If this does not make sense then I think I'm starting to lose the plot ( or maybe I just overdid it yesterday )

It's been a long time since I last tasted a worm and I can't remember the taste , I'd better bring some sauce.

And now I just feel like I've derailed another thread , I really should learn how to keep my mouth shut or my fingers idle :oops:


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28 Jul 2017, 7:29 am

^ personally, I think most threads here are improved when derailed.


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28 Jul 2017, 8:55 am

Its a paradox. If you're honest about your feelings in a public forum then others are gonna be honest about what you have said back at you.



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28 Jul 2017, 10:10 am

"Babies On A Plane," the movie, lol!



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28 Jul 2017, 11:23 am

Had a plane journey a few months ago, two and a half hours to Spain. When we got there one of the fight attendants announced "I'd like to thank everyone for their patience, we've had a record number of babies on board today".

It was like the seventh circle of Hell.


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