shadexiii wrote:
-3. angry. electric bill is way up. I'm guessing it is because the guy on my couch never turns off the f***ing television. I wake up, doesn't matter if he's asleep or at work, the damn television is on. That's just part of a long string of issues. Like my sandals. Haven't been able to find them today. I have this feeling he decided to use them. Why would I guess that? Oh, well, lets see, I've already caught him wearing shirts of mine, and a pair of shorts as well. If he had asked, that would have been one thing. Instead, he just wears them. The shorts, at one point he claimed that he was happy he had brought them with him.
Today's the last day of this sh**. If I find out he had taken my sandals, I'm telling him to pack his sh** up and get the f**k out. No moving in with me when I move, no nothing. If he wants back the couple things he's "given" me, so be it, I really don't care. It would be worth it at this point to get him the hell out of here. He may have done some nice things, like doing my laundry one day, and cook a couple of times, but that doesn't make me comfortable with him just using my sh** like I don't care.
I think I had a brand new package of razor blades a couple weeks ago. Not any more. If I were to ask, the "thief" that has taken some stuff did it, or he'd act confused, like "How the hell did that happen?" If he would admit this sh**, that would be one thing. I'd likely be understanding about it. Instead it is never his fault, he doesn't know what happened, someone else did it, whatever. I'm sick of it, and I'm sick of him reminding me of the things he's done for me, some of which aren't even true.
Don't let him take advantage of you; wait until your head is clear and you don't feel so angry and tell him you need to talk and just tell him that there has to be some ground rules if he wants to still live in your place or he will have to go.