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Kilroy
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08 May 2007, 6:16 pm

no one here is worthless!



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08 May 2007, 6:19 pm

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No.


Yes.

No.


Yes.

NO! You are incorrect.



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08 May 2007, 6:21 pm

Kilroy wrote:
no one here is worthless!


Don't speak for me...if I see myself as worthless I am worthless.

Do you assume to see something that “they” don’t see in themselves…even though they’re them and you’re you?



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08 May 2007, 6:22 pm

Sopho wrote:
NO! You are incorrect.


YES! I am correct.



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08 May 2007, 6:23 pm

Danielismyname wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
no one here is worthless!


Don't speak for me...if I see myself as worthless I am worthless.

Do you assume to see something that “they” don’t see in themselves…even though they’re them and you’re you?

If even one person thinks that someone is not worthless, then however badly they think of themselves, they are not worthless.



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08 May 2007, 6:25 pm

yeah-your not worthless seriously



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08 May 2007, 6:25 pm

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If even one person thinks that someone is not worthless, then however badly they think of themselves, they are not worthless.


Why should said person care what "one person" sees? I'd be annoyed...I am annoyed when people dare presume they know me more than I know myself.



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08 May 2007, 6:28 pm

Danielismyname wrote:
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If even one person thinks that someone is not worthless, then however badly they think of themselves, they are not worthless.


Why should said person care what "one person" sees? I'd be annoyed...I am annoyed when people dare presume they know me more than I know myself.

You don't have to care what other people think; I wouldn't expect you to. Also, I don't assume that I know anybody better than they know themselves. One person's view on whether another is worthless or not does not have to be based on whether they know them better than they know themselves. And I wasn't referring to you, so you don't have to be annoyed.



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08 May 2007, 6:39 pm

Sopho wrote:
You don't have to care what other people think; I wouldn't expect you to. Also, I don't assume that I know anybody better than they know themselves. One person's view on whether another is worthless or not does not have to be based on whether they know them better than they know themselves. And I wasn't referring to you, so you don't have to be annoyed.


I'm speaking of people long gone...deduction through retrospection.

If I don't care what you think when you say I'm not worthless...how does that make me feel not worthless? You assume I wouldn’t listen or care…so why bother speculating on something that isn’t anything to anyone other than yourself? Unless you are projecting yourself in the hopes of finding something that you deem as not “worthless” in those who see themselves as “worthless” so you don’t feel “worthless”. Or, you wish to appear "nice", or...?



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08 May 2007, 6:44 pm

Danielismyname wrote:
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You don't have to care what other people think; I wouldn't expect you to. Also, I don't assume that I know anybody better than they know themselves. One person's view on whether another is worthless or not does not have to be based on whether they know them better than they know themselves. And I wasn't referring to you, so you don't have to be annoyed.


I'm speaking of people long gone...deduction through retrospection.

If I don't care what you think when you say I'm not worthless...how does that make me feel not worthless? You assume I wouldn’t listen or care…so why bother speculating on something that isn’t anything to anyone other than yourself? Unless you are projecting yourself in the hopes of finding something that you deem as not “worthless” in those who see themselves as “worthless” so you don’t feel “worthless”. Or, you wish to appear "nice", or...?

But I didn't mean you.
What other people say does affect some people on here so, knowing that other people don't think they're worthless might sometimes actually help them. Maybe not much, but even if it makes them feel just a bit better then there was a point to it. Just because it doesn't change the way you view yourself, that doesn't mean it doesn't help other people/. I know that when I've been feeling sad, people on here have helped me. They haven't necessarily changed the way I feel about myself personally, but they've made me feel better. So even though what other people think about you doesn't mean anything to you, that doesn't mean that there's any point telling people not to try and help others on here. Sometimes when people feel really sh*t, just knowing that someone else cares about them can actually make some difference.
And I don't do it to appear nice. A lot of the things I say on here probably make be either look like a tosser or a selfish bastard sometimes, I don't just say things to people because I feel that I should say that, or I won't to project a particular image of myself. I don't lie to people.



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08 May 2007, 6:50 pm

10. I didnt want to go to school so I stayed home and had a good time.



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08 May 2007, 6:52 pm

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But I didn't mean you.


I know you didn’t mean me. :wink:

I'm learning...understanding how people have interacted with me in the past when I've been unable to interact with them; thanks for helping me understand the mindset of a single individual (i.e., you).



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08 May 2007, 6:54 pm

6. I am wordless



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08 May 2007, 7:42 pm

4
I'm starting to feel bad again.
But not that bad.



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08 May 2007, 9:27 pm

Thanks Sopho, RTSgamerFTW, and Kilroy.

TM1, I hope your dog gets better. It sucks when you lose a pet, especially one so old.

So 2. Still feel worthless, but I've got new music and that always make me feel a bit better.


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Three years!


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08 May 2007, 9:37 pm

if your worthless then I hate Styx

and I love Styx so what does that mean...
thats right :)