Danielismyname wrote:
People,
Graelwyn understood everything I said, and I understood everything she said; that's why we were conversing together until she said stop.
A helping hand will only be held when someone grabs it; even a second of holding hands is enough....
So she understood what you said. Does that automatically make what you said helpful? Nope, sorry, afraid not.
Again, worry less about the philosophy, or the zen, or whatever you want to call it, and more about the condition of the individual you are supposedly trying to "help" with it.