WP Has Made Me Misreable

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Before I joined WP, I was always happy. Now look at me. I'm always depressed thanks to WP. Everyone here has a better life than me, and that makes things worse for me. I hate hearing about how perfect peoples' lives are compared to mine. I know I have a bad life, and WP is making it worse. If I had never joined, I wouldn't be so depressed. I was also optimistic when before I joined, but now I'm negative all the time. This means I'm leaving WP for good. I'll never come back this time, so please don't try and make me because I won't come back. I'll be doing other things, such as starting a website and that. Sorry this had to happen, but I don't want my life to get any worse than it is. I thank you all for the fun and advice you have given me, I shall not forget it.

~Ashleigh(RedMage)

PS. I might come back in a few months, but I really need a break.

PS 2. I'll still be on MSN, so if anyone wants to talk to me, feel free to do so.

MSN address: ashleighmage@hotmail.com

I hate to see you go, but its your decision. We'll all miss you.

Rox

hope you enjoy your time off of here. i personally would just get take a break without telling anyone...that's the way i am.

Good luck, you know where I am, but I must say...it is all too easy to see other people here as having perfect lives when actually, all the evidence points to it being otherwise...have you seen the number of posts in the haven from other Wp members??? All sharing very real problems. No-one has a perfect life...it does not exist. Others here might not have the same life as you, but that does not necessarily mean they have a better life...just a different set of problems and challenges to overcome. You seem to only be looking at all the nice things people post about what they have rather than the things they struggle with which is a bad way to do things. Look more closely and you will see that everyone has problems and things they don't like, but you have to learn to accept that green as the grass might look on the other side, it is probably just as brown and wilted to them as yours seems to you right now...

Well, I understand why you don't want to be here, because of your situation, Ashleigh. I hope that you feel happier soon, and stop feeling depressed. You know, you don't have a bad life at all. I'm sorry that you feel this way. Other WP members' lives are far from perfect, and that includes me. I've felt loneliness and isolation before, and still do, but I somehow live with it. (Don't ask me how, I don't know.) Believe me, if I'd thought that you were a loser, I would have stepped away from dating you.
I don't think your life is all that bad. You have so many good qualities that other people lack.

You're not going to read this, but I just wanted to say it. The members here will miss you.

I hope that you start feeling better. But ultimately, if there's something that only you can do to make yourself feel better, you must do it. I suspect that on a site of Aspies, the majority of people are less likely to understand. =)

Have a nice time. I'm not going to ask you to come back, you've made that decision already. MSN is better for one to one conversations, and I love talking to you, even when you're upset and depressed, I have the courtesy of trying to make you feel better.

*hugs*

If I were you I'd just go and have a break without telling anyone, without making a big song and dance about it. But that's your choice. Hope to see you back here some day.

Your leaving I wish I had MSN. I am really going to miss you.
I am sorry this had to happen..

It´s a shame that you have to go, hope to see you someday here again.

Aww, it's a shame you have to go.

My life's s**t...trust me. Not everyone's life is better than yours. But what am I to say? That's my opinion.

Cya later.

School used to make me feel the same way.

I'm sorry!

I didn't mean to make you upset!

Have a good few months!

Redmage, you need to do what is right for you.

You think my life is that better than yours,you're wrong.

See ya!

I wish you well Ashleigh, and I'll miss seeing your posts but I won't try and persuade you to stay if it's making you miserable here. Maybe you'll leave your options open so you can come back if you want to and let us know how you're getting on? All the best.

RedMage, I added you to my MSN.