ever feel like you seem to have worse luck than most people?

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i do sometimes. and i can't find a reason why it happens, because it never seems to be within my control. its like everything is too good to be true, and the good things never last because something immediately always has to happen to burst the bubble.

i've never had a boyfriend/girlfriend longer than 3 weeks because mysteriously they always suddenly decide its not right, having there been no particular bad event that has led them to it. i don't know personally anyone else who seems to have that problem.

i moved to uni and my housemates seemed genuinely nice, something i'm not really used to in people, but then someone else came along very soon who i took an immediate dislike to, and he gradually edged me out of the way until now i never have anything to do with them whatsoever.

i just wonder... why did it have to happen to me? i don;t know anyone else who got rejected in favour of some shallow wannabe gangsta type moron purely because he was better at socialising than me, and so made friends with the others whilst i was still not quite used to it all, and then them using him as a benchmark to justify their opinion that i'm just unfriendly and rude.

just the ramblings of the frustrated i guess... i want there to be a solid, scientific reason why but i just can't find one. and i can't keep living on the hope that it will change someday. maybe i'm just being pathetic and overly emotional.

I feel like that alot myself. I feel like everyone's in luck all the time and I'm not. I though I made a new friend but she's stopped hanging out with me as much, only weeks ago she kept telling me how nice I am and now she's just disappeared and I don't know what I've done wrong.
Also i seem to have bad luck with things I buy or gifts, they either break not long after or they didn't work like I wanted to or they weren't to my expectations etc

Annoying it is

my airport related luck:

1. got stopped while travelling w my brother and his friend, in munich. suspected of human trafficking.
2. lufthansa from oslo had to circle for 2 hours dumping fuel, when the landing gear wouldnt come out. braced for crashlanding. (took it like a zen-monk tho. my brother freaked out)
3. held up for 3 hours in spain, after a bomb threat. it was in spanish newspapers. my grandma in spain freaked out.

yes.