I feel bad because I'm white... :(

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22 Apr 2011, 1:49 pm

I love being white. enough said! :pig:


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22 Apr 2011, 2:01 pm

richardbenson wrote:
I love being white. enough said! :pig:


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22 Apr 2011, 2:03 pm

LiendaBalla wrote:
colored relative.


Oh dear lord.
This reminds me of the episode of The Office where Michael Scott tries to defend doing a Chris Rock stand-up bit.



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22 Apr 2011, 6:07 pm

Henbane wrote:
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It's not about forefathers. It's about the present. The fact that you don't get that is what makes you equally guilty as your forefathers.



This thread makes you want to throw up?

I stand by what I say above. I'm not going to feel guilty about the actions of white people who lived hundreds of years ago, or anyone else's actions today.

As for forefathers, I've managed to trace my forefathers back to the 14th century. I have 3800 people on my family tree. They were all working class tenants; farm labourers or factory workers. A few were deported to Australia for stealing food. A lot were Irish peasants who had to leave Ireland due to the potato famine. A few emigrated to America to escape religious persecution. Some ended up in the workhouse. A lot died of horrible diseases very young. The women had 10, 12, 14 children. I am not going to feel guilty about their lives. They struggled to survive, just as the majority of white people, and all people of whatever colour, have done for centuries. None of them had the vote. None of them had any say in how the rulers of their country managed affairs at home, never mind abroad. I'm still struggling to survive today, life is enough of a struggle without bearing the guilt of other people's actions.


Henbane is correct (and is generally correct with respect to the ancestry of most people), and the fact that wefunction doesn't get that is what makes hir as equally wrong as anyone else who buys into the privilege meme.

Or alternatively: racist, n. - one who believes in the existence of races (as opposed to facing the messy umpteen billionfold complexity of human genetics and ancestry.)


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22 Apr 2011, 6:55 pm

It's amazing how far people will go to justify themselves. Privilege is not a new concept, not in identification or practice; but, I suppose I can see where someone would believe it only began to exist from the moment that they learned about it.



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22 Apr 2011, 7:13 pm

I can kind of relate to this. I hate American history for this reason, we have yet to go over a single chapter without mentioning something about slavery/segregation. It absolutely disgusts me. I prefer not to think about it.


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22 Apr 2011, 7:22 pm

wefunction wrote:
LiendaBalla wrote:
colored relative.


Oh dear lord.
This reminds me of the episode of The Office where Michael Scott tries to defend doing a Chris Rock stand-up bit.

Yeah, I know. He shouldn't have to defend it. Television these days.


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22 Apr 2011, 7:25 pm

Lecks wrote:
wefunction wrote:
LiendaBalla wrote:
colored relative.


Oh dear lord.
This reminds me of the episode of The Office where Michael Scott tries to defend doing a Chris Rock stand-up bit.

Yeah, I know. He shouldn't have to defend it. Television these days.


Don't bother me.



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22 Apr 2011, 7:29 pm

I wasn't aware I was bothering you.


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22 Apr 2011, 7:42 pm

I use to get hung up on being an American rather than white. These days it doesn't bother me like it use to. People who assume I'm bad just because I was born on American soil only makes them as ignorant as the neo-patriot Americans or racist whites. Distinguishing a person on the basis of a group they share in common for instance, race, religion, nation, gender, etc is in essence a form of discrimination.


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22 Apr 2011, 11:14 pm

I used to feel the same way when I was younger. I used to think about the many ways that whites treated the other races up until the 60s. I used to get angry just thinking about it, and I'm glad that things have changed for the better for all races, over the past 200 years.


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23 Apr 2011, 6:40 am

wefunction wrote:
It's amazing how far people will go to justify themselves. Privilege is not a new concept, not in identification or practice; but, I suppose I can see where someone would believe it only began to exist from the moment that they learned about it.



I'm not sure if you were aiming this dismissive comment at anyone in particular.

I tend to see privilege as a non racial issue. But maybe that's a British thing.

I see it firstly as coming from class. The landed gentry, inherited wealth, money to pay for private education, going to Oxford or Cambridge, knowing the 'right' people, being able to afford unpaid internships and being supported by mummy and daddy while forging a career in London. Generations of people who have had power and influence, and have passed this on to their children, without the children necessarily having the talent or having worked hard to earn it. See David Cameron and George Osborne (Prime Minister and Chancellor of the Exchequer).

But there is another kind of privilege. Coming from a family, no matter how poor, where education matters. In this country, poor white boys tend to do very badly at school, because there is no longer a culture of education in many poor white families. Bangladeshi and Pakistani kids don't tend to do very well either. Conversely Hindu and Sikh children and Chinese children, do well, because their parents prize education and working hard. While educational attainment can be broken down by racial/religious group, it can be seen that it is not just poverty and race that make the difference. It is the attitude of the family to education. If a child is encouraged at home, has discipline and works hard, health and ability permitting, they can do well. For example, I've seen a lot of psychiatrists in my life, 90% have been of Indian origin.

I recognise that America is different, its history is very different to the UK's. But I thought America was the land of opportunity?



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23 Apr 2011, 7:20 am

America has serious class issues.