Does anyone else feel unfit to have a child?

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I feel the same way as you guys do. I know that if I were to change my mind that my maternal instincts would help with caring for it when its really young, but I still would have to care for it when it becomes a toddler. The "terrible twos" stage is what scares me the most. Trying to explain things to a toddler who doesnt understand the way things work and who will explode into a tantrum if he doesnt get his way, I dont think that I could handle that.

Also, I am afraid that the medications I take would harm the baby during the pregnancy.

I have a feeling that some day I will feel my biological clock ticking and will end up with a baby, But I Wont despair over the baby, Because I know that even though that it may not have a very good mother, But I know that it would have a good father.