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EvilKimEvil
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19 Oct 2007, 12:04 pm

ok, unicorns aside, yes, i have often been a scapegoat--in the modern, figurative sense.



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19 Oct 2007, 2:54 pm

Rarely. Or uncommonly... that's all I can say really...
Certainly I may 'feel' like one quite a bit but that's paranoia talking.


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19 Oct 2007, 3:21 pm

yes but I blame the people who do it to me more than my aspieness. Just because you see a deer in your headlights, doesn't mean you have to hit it.



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19 Oct 2007, 3:37 pm

CeriseLy wrote:
yes but I blame the people who do it to me more than my aspieness. Just because you see a deer in your headlights, doesn't mean you have to hit it.


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19 Oct 2007, 6:11 pm

If I see a bully in my headlights I'd have no problem hitting them. mwhahaha :twisted:



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19 Oct 2007, 8:06 pm

I am frequently the scape goat within my family. It does not matter if my behavior is better than the others, or my grades higher, etc. I am always the "bad one", the one they shake their heads at, the one ostracized. It really hurts.


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19 Oct 2007, 11:50 pm

I am always blamed for everything...even if everyone agrees that I had NOTHING to do with it.

Things that happened years before I was born, my mother blames me for.

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It really hurts.

Yeah. :(