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neptunekh
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29 Jan 2016, 6:53 pm

People tell me I'm too loud. But when I don't say anything, they think I'm upset. Its very unfair.



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29 Jan 2016, 7:56 pm

neptunekh wrote:
People tell me I'm too loud. But when I don't say anything, they think I'm upset. Its very unfair.


All. The. Time. No matter what I do or what I say or not say, I get the shaft.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:27 pm

Hang around this website long enough, and you will find out that no matter what you post, someone will criticize you for posting it.

For me, it's been good practice. I'm learning to ignore my critics, and to keep posting whatever I want. The trick has been learning to post my opinions in such a way that they are not directed at any one person (thus breaking The Rules), but at a general behavior that could apply to everyone to a greater or lesser degree.

That's called "tact" ... or so I've been told ...


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29 Jan 2016, 8:33 pm

Fnord wrote:
Hang around this website long enough, and you will find out that no matter what you post, someone will criticize you for posting it.
Critics aplenty on the interwebby.....


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