Biokinetica wrote:
I don't see why this is a bad thing. I think what you're attracted to is something that was designed to be attractive in ways that can't happen in reality. If you are attracted to one of these characters, then the author has done his job. Once you get used to seeing these characters, real people become less extraordinary because of their inability to live up to the power of characters in fantasy.
Then you both have the same problem which can only lead to disappointment and loneliness.
When did I say I was waiting for some godlike comic book character to fall in love with me? When did I even tell you what I'm attracted to?