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Belushi87
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01 Jun 2011, 9:10 pm

does it feel like everyone that you know is againest you?
meaning that when you bring something up instead of helping, they say something negative or something that you don't want to hear.



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02 Jun 2011, 5:29 pm

Sometimes it feels like that and I have had that happen before. One thing I had to realize is that people who give advice are not always right, so if they say something negative, and not helpful, go to someone else.



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03 Jun 2011, 8:14 pm

Sometimes it feels like I have 0 friends and other times it feels like everyone is super nice.

It fluctuates.



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04 Jun 2011, 10:14 am

Yeah. It feels like no one, not even my family listens to me when I'm upset when I need some comforting and I feel so alone. Sometimes I just want to die because I feel no one understands me.



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04 Jun 2011, 11:03 am

Used to feel this way, but it was before I was diagnosed. After the diagnosis, I got used to it more and more, and it is a quite effective way of learning to just rely on yourself.



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04 Jun 2011, 11:46 am

Belushi87 wrote:
Does it feel like everyone is against you? meaning that when you bring something up instead of helping, they say something negative or something that you don't want to hear.

Not everyone; just the willfully ignorant, the wooists, the conspiracy theorists, several fascists, and most of the elders at my church.


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04 Jun 2011, 1:15 pm

Fnord wrote:
Not everyone just the wooists......


Who are the wooists????



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04 Jun 2011, 1:55 pm

I feel like that even when I have no reason to believe it......it was not so bad before my experiance on anti-depressants, but lets just say when I say they made me more paranoid that did not just go away after I quit taking them. Its not as bad as it was when I as actually on the anti-depressants but still worse then before I ever took them.

So yeah even if I text someone and they don't text back for I while I will start assuming they are trying to be difficult and stress me out....even if its more like they are busy and have to wait till the have time to text back for instance.