WP Has Made Me Misreable

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25 Mar 2007, 5:35 pm

I think you are looking at this all wrong. Instead of getting depressed thinking that everyone's life is better than yours you should look at it in a different light. Many people here are showing you that despite the difficulties we face it is possible to have a good life. At 39 my life has never been better but what you don't see is the 38 years of blood, sweat, tears, heartache and hard work it took to get there. Yes I went through hell because of AS but I didn't give up. I kept going and am now being rewarded beyond anything that my tormentors ever had or could hope to have. Did being an Aspie stop Bill Gates? Hell no it didn't. If you want it bad enough you can achieve it but it won't get handed to you on a silver platter.


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25 Mar 2007, 10:13 pm

larsenjw92286 wrote:
I'm sorry!

I didn't mean to make you upset!

I'm sure you did nothing of the sort Jason. I think she is commenting on WP in general.

RedMage I hope you find a happy forum to help cheer you up.



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25 Mar 2007, 10:30 pm

I'll miss your posts :cry:

I'm sorry if you feel depressed and isolated. I don't think your life is bad, you are amazing!

RedMage, I think you and I have a lot in common, I consider you as my friend. I hope you continue here on WP, but I can't do anything, it's your desicion. See ya on MSN.



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25 Mar 2007, 10:34 pm

She's gone, and if you read this thread you'll know it!

However, I'm happy that you're still here!

I know your e-mail address is as simple as that!


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25 Mar 2007, 11:12 pm

She says she's a lot happier now that she's gone.



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25 Mar 2007, 11:16 pm

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She says she's a lot happier now that she's gone.


That's too bad.

I mean it's too bad she has to leave to be happy, not too bad that she is happy.



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25 Mar 2007, 11:17 pm

That is good but one cannot hide from the less pleasant aspects of life forever. I think it is bad to run away from the things that remind us of what we want as then we don't have that little push to attain what we desire... might be rambling as my brain is in super fatigue mode, but that is my take.


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25 Mar 2007, 11:21 pm

Well, now that I think about it, I'm happy that a veteran replied to this thread.

It's her e-mail address that I think I know.


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25 Mar 2007, 11:25 pm

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Before I joined WP, I was always happy. Now look at me. I'm always depressed thanks to WP. Everyone here has a better life than me, and that makes things worse for me. I hate hearing about how perfect peoples' lives are compared to mine. I know I have a bad life, and WP is making it worse. If I had never joined, I wouldn't be so depressed. I was also optimistic when before I joined, but now I'm negative all the time. This means I'm leaving WP for good. I'll never come back this time, so please don't try and make me because I won't come back. I'll be doing other things, such as starting a website and that. Sorry this had to happen, but I don't want my life to get any worse than it is. I thank you all for the fun and advice you have given me, I shall not forget it.

~Ashleigh(RedMage)

PS. I might come back in a few months, but I really need a break.

PS 2. I'll still be on MSN, so if anyone wants to talk to me, feel free to do so.

MSN address: ashleighmage@hotmail.com


You know, a lot of what people say is all talk, and I mainly see people on here complaining about their lives. I'll add you to MSN.



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25 Mar 2007, 11:46 pm

I'm back now. I've had a long thought about this, and leaving is the best thing to do. I like WP, I really do, and leaving is just stupid. I am feeling a lot better about my life now, and hopefully now I'll be making less posts here in The Haven.



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25 Mar 2007, 11:48 pm

I know what you mean. I left for a whole year because it got to where there were too many negative people and it was affecting me too. I grew a little bit thicker skin in the meantime. Good luck, and I'm sure you've still learned much from your time here.
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25 Mar 2007, 11:50 pm

I hope that's the truth, and you have made a final decision about that.

I also hope you don't need any lifelines.


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26 Mar 2007, 12:03 am

You're free to take a few days leave if you need to!


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26 Mar 2007, 12:06 am

There were a few times that I've felt miserable here, and I've also kept coming back, because I like it here, at the same time.



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26 Mar 2007, 3:04 am

Group hug!! !

Much metta, everyone.

8)



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26 Mar 2007, 3:06 am

Rjaye wrote:
Group hug!! !

Much metta, everyone.

8)


What is metta? Peace?


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