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02 Jun 2007, 11:22 am

but I PMed you I tried to get to be your friend...
what about me

I want to be your friend you seem like a nice person
I hope we can be friends someday

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02 Jun 2007, 12:02 pm

You've got a chip on your shoulder. This is an obvious ploy to get attention because you feel rejected. If you really felt the way you said you do, you wouldn't have bothered posting at all. It's okay though. Really nobody hates you. If you will relax about it, you will see you are fully accepted here. I have a saying I made for myself: "Expectation skews perception. Perception skews behavior. Behavior skews reality." The point is, if we expect something, we'll tend to see it even when it's not really there, then we'll react to it as if it really is there, and finally, the very act of treating something as real can make it so. So if you want things to start going your way, start expecting them to. Then give it some time to take effect. It has done amazing things for me in my life; I was miserable to the point of being suicidal for an entire decade from ages 16 to 26, and then in the last two years since I figured this out I have done a complete 180. I'm now happy, I have a good (and high-paying) job, people treat me with respect and want to be around me, etc. I'm not saying that every problem will simply vanish, but why allow or even force a single splash to ripple the whole pond's surface? Let your negative feelings die with the problems that cause them, and always remember that your problems really will die when they are coming your way.

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02 Jun 2007, 12:25 pm

The way you're acting is only going to make your situation worse. We're not out to get you or insult you or any such thing, but there are some of us - me included - who will start to avoid your posts simply so we don't have to read about how much we're neglecting you.

Cheerlessleader wrote:

I should have known I would be hated HERE, at a place where we're supposed to know what it's like to be hated for no reason, and were you'd think at least some people would treat everyone else with a certain degree of respect!

You seem to have no respect for anyone else here.

Cheerlessleader wrote:

I get ignored, I get dissed, people avoid every single thread I make like the f***ing plague, and I get yelled at for "expecting everything to go my way" if I bring it up!

Obviously people don't avoid every thread you make, since there are replies here. Besides, it takes time for people to respond. There are a lot of different time zones, and the forum may be busiest at a time when you can't be present.
As for people reprimanding you, well, yes. You're not being very reasonable when you bring this up. You're always yelling at us. That does not inspire good feelings, allow me to assure you.

Cheerlessleader wrote:

WELL YOU CAN ALL f***ing ROT IN HELL FOR ALL I CARE!! !!
Oh wait, now you're gonna start dissing me for not getting on my hands and knees and thanking you profusely for all of this, you're just like the evil popular kids I knew in school and daydream about mutilating to this very day!

A bit of respect would be nice, but I don't see it happening, and I'm not so much of a believer. We're not out to get you, nor do we want your undying gratitude. Honestly, we don't act any differently to you than we do to anyone else. If anyone else posted like this, they would get the same response. It's not a conspiracy against you.

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AND you've supported the theory that aspies/auties lack empathy!

I don't lack empathy, just patience.

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02 Jun 2007, 12:30 pm

I don't recall ever being mean to you.
I am sorry you feel this way.

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02 Jun 2007, 2:54 pm

Maybe if you didn't make so many posts using 'OMFG I f*****g HATE NT'S NO ONE UNDERSTANDS ME YOU CAN ALL DIE FOR ALL I CARE!! !! !!', people would like you.

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02 Jun 2007, 3:10 pm

I don't know about violentcloud, Quatermass and kosmonaut but i have nothing against you.

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02 Jun 2007, 4:42 pm

I don't hate you...

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02 Jun 2007, 6:49 pm

Cheerlessleader wrote:

Look, I came here looking for acceptance, and I was hoping that someone might actually aknowledge my existance. But ever since I first joined, you've all been completely ignoring me, some of you are even dissing me even though I've never done anything to you (I mean you, violentcloud, Quatermass and kosmonaut!) I should have known this would happen! I should have known I would be hated HERE, at a place where we're supposed to know what it's like to be hated for no reason, and were you'd think at least some people would treat everyone else with a certain degree of respect! Yes I have flamed some people, but NOT for fun, I don't go around dissing everyone's favourite things, I don't put people down for feeling a certain way, I try to be nice most of the time, but what do I get in return? I get ignored, I get dissed, people avoid every single thread I make like the f***ing plague, and I get yelled at for "expecting everything to go my way" if I bring it up! WELL YOU CAN ALL f***ing ROT IN HELL FOR ALL I CARE!! !!

I am sorry you feel this way, I know I feel ignored sometimes in here, and sometimes I have felt very lonely too, but please don't yell and swear things like you just did, it is just going to scare people off, it's scaring me.

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02 Jun 2007, 10:13 pm

Starbuline wrote:

Maybe if you didn't make so many posts using 'OMFG I f***ing HATE NT'S NO ONE UNDERSTANDS ME YOU CAN ALL DIE FOR ALL I CARE!! !! !!', people would like you.

I don't say that! I don't say "OMFG"! I don't say "no-one understands me" all the time! And I have every right to hate NTs, AND UNTIL NOW I HAVE NOT SAID ANYTHING LIKE "YOU CAN ALL DIE FOR ALL I CARE"!
Just shows how much you really pay attention.

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02 Jun 2007, 10:22 pm

I sent you a PM to say hi

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02 Jun 2007, 10:23 pm

RainSong wrote:

Cheerlessleader wrote:

You seem to have no respect for anyone else here.

Cheerlessleader wrote:

I get ignored, I get dissed, people avoid every single thread I make like the f***ing plague, and I get yelled at for "expecting everything to go my way" if I bring it up!

Cheerlessleader wrote:

AND you've supported the theory that aspies/auties lack empathy!

I don't lack empathy, just patience.

I very rarely bring up the fact that I'm ignored! This is the only thread I've made about feeling ignored. I made this thread to tell you all how I feel, yet you've all just dismissed it!
And I DO respect the other members, I don't diss anyone unless they've truely earnt it! And I'm NOT always yelling at you! You only read my posts and threads about how invisible I feel just so you can say

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We're not out to get you or insult you or any such thing, but there are some of us - me included - who will start to avoid your posts simply so we don't have to read about how much we're neglecting you.

I.DO.NOT.ONLY.MAKE.POSTS.ABOUT.HOW.MUCH.YOU.IGNORE.ME!! ! Maybe if you could be arsed reading some of my other posts (not involving how ignored I feel, WHICH IS 99% OF THEM) you would have noticed that by now!

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02 Jun 2007, 10:35 pm

RTSgamerFTW wrote:

I don't know about violentcloud, Quatermass and kosmonaut but i have nothing against you.

I do not hate Cheerlessleader, but I am finding it increasingly hard to put up with this persistent attitude to any other users.

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02 Jun 2007, 10:45 pm

"persistent"?
Look, before atomika, richardbenson (who I'm fine with now as he isn't trolling anymore) and aspie17, was I mean to anyone else?
If I was it was unitentional and I'm sorry!

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02 Jun 2007, 10:49 pm

I make one thread, ONE THREAD about how I feel and what do I get? "oh you're always whining about being ignored and you're always being rude to people that's why everyone ignores you" One f*****g thread like this hardly qualifies as ALWAYS whining about being neglected and ALWAYS being rude to everyone else!

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02 Jun 2007, 10:52 pm

Cheerlessleader wrote:

"persistent"?
Look, before atomika, richardbenson (who I'm fine with now as he isn't trolling anymore) and aspie17, was I mean to anyone else?
If I was it was unitentional and I'm sorry!

Apology accepted. Now please calm down. Why should you change in attitude just because of trolls who most likely have a lower IQ than you?

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02 Jun 2007, 10:56 pm

Cheerlessleader wrote:

I make one thread, ONE THREAD about how I feel and what do I get? "oh you're always whining about being ignored and you're always being rude to people that's why everyone ignores you" One f***ing thread like this hardly qualifies as ALWAYS whining about being neglected and ALWAYS being rude to everyone else!

One thread? You have made at least one other thread of this nature, with the same angry ranting, and biting anyone who makes so much as even a reasonable contradictory opinion.

I only ask that, while I understand that you may need a major rant in The Haven every now and again, do not transfer this to the rest of Wrong Planet! Savvy?

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