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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating sites: how to message people |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2013, 10:37 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,714
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| You are judged primarily based on your profile picture(s). It makes little or no difference the content of your message or your profile. Stop wasting time writing essays about your life in your profiles. Messages half of the times are deleted without being read. There is no point in writing long wor... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: good stuff about shy guys |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2013, 1:30 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 7,243
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| I find it hard to believe that a male being shy is a positive in the cut throat world that we live in. A male being quiet and shy is usually regarded by society as a weakness. Males are expected to make the first move and be able to deal with countless rejection from females. Shy guys are unlikely t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Free Dating Sites Vs Paid Dating Sites |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 10:14 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,474
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Paid sites = spend money to waste time and get very few responses.
Free sites = free to waste time and get very few responses.
Either way it is a lose-lose scenario for the average male user. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Living as an adult male virgin, unable to cope |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 146
Views: 44,880
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| I am a 30 almost 31 year old ugly virgin loser who has always been single and will die alone. If you are a poor, broke, ugly guy you have no hope of ever meeting anyone. It sucks being a loser for life. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hmm... updated OKC profile. I think I should ditch it. |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 12:04 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,218
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| I doubt people bother reading profiles. Long profiles are a turn off. The profile picture(s) are what we are primarily judged on and if people find you unattractive they will usually not respond to you regardless of the content of your profile or your message. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ok Cupid |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 9:52 pm
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Replies: 171
Views: 18,914
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| I have only had bad experiences with OKC and other sites. Send out lots of messages for little or no response. What a total waste of time. The content of your profile does not matter and you are judged solely upon your profile picture. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Keep getting banned on forums |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 5,122
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| Attention seeking behaviour or ADHD of some people often leads to trolling behaviour on internet forums. They are often lonely people who desperately want to interact with people but they lack the social skills to interact in a positive way or they simply troll forums for some fun and to alleviate b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 10:10 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 36,858
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| I have a reached a time in my life and I have now accepted cold hard reality. I believe the past is often a good indicator of how the future will turn out. A successful past usually leads to a good future but a bad/troubled past usually leads to a bad future. I have accepted I will be alone forever ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 9:26 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 36,858
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RYBO316 wrote: I will never find someone that will like me for me.
It gets more difficult to find someone when you get older. The best years of finding someone is before you turn 25. After 25 it gets more difficult with every passing year. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: is this consider friendzone |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 7:27 am
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Replies: 129
Views: 9,524
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| Friend zone is the same as an outright rejection. Reject their offer of friendship and have nothing to do with them. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I often avoid eye contact |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 6:58 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,674
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| Constantly avoiding eye contact is usually a clear indicator of Autism/Aspergers syndrome or a learning disability. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 6:45 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 36,858
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| Both lonely males and females contribute towards their own unhappiness and have complex issues. Aspie males are far more socially impaired than Aspie females, who are socially impaired to NT females. Aspie males statistically have a much better chance of happiness or interacting with Aspie females w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: exchanging numbers |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2013, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,899
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| i collect numbers and rarely text and never call them. giving out and receiving numbers is no big deal. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Dating |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2013, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,167
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| lots of females have positive things to say about dating sites because they have much greater success on those sites and they are bombarded with responses from males. on the other hand it is very hard being a male on a dating site. males are better off going out more and pursuing women in real life ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Dating |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2013, 8:31 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,167
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| Online dating is good for women because they have unlimited choice from desperate guys messaging them. Online dating is generally a waste of time for most guys who must send out lots of messages and get little or no responses. Males typically out number females by 3 to 1 on most dating sites. Odds a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: some aspie women get dates,other aspie women can't |
| steviewonderau |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2012, 4:46 am
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Replies: 189
Views: 14,044
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| being quiet and shy is a severe handicap if you are male and is seen by society as a weakness. however it does not matter if a female is quiet and shy because males are willing to lower their standards and they accept quiet and shy females. there are are more males than females in the world and thus... |
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