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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Single most of your life |
| kinako2 |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 2:56 am
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Replies: 38
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| Wanted an LTR once upon a time, as much as being happy. Stopped when I realized my ASD and other conditions were overwhelming and began to withdraw for fear of being rejected yet again. Been so long since my last LTR ('98) that it's more or less give-or-take if it happens, but I do feel lonesome fro... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Does being attracted to the same sex change masturbation? |
| kinako2 |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 3:18 am
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Replies: 11
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| This is an interesting topic... When I identified as str8, some of my earliest sexual memories was masturbation in the mirror while turning and exploring my body. When I came out in the military, this didn't change. Being young and really in shape (and seeing a lot of like peers often) made that pre... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Romantically attracted to men, sexually to women... |
| kinako2 |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 3:00 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 14,541
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Iloveshoujoai wrote: Shau, I am exactly the opposite: sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to only women.
+1, though the gap has closed quite a bit as I get older. Sex with women is still fun, just hasn't happened in years.
Men on the other hand...  |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you remember your very first live concert? |
| kinako2 |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 2:53 am
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Replies: 112
Views: 16,434
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1994, Pink Floyd's 'Division Bell' tour at RFK Stadium in DC... boy that was some introduction to the mega-stadium show. 
Later that year would be a pivotal defeat in the war to manage my conditions. Both a mind-blowing and frightening couple of years, '94-'95.  |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Anyone else ever dreams of being raped/restrained? |
| kinako2 |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 1:06 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 7,658
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Depends.
I have fantasies of being dominated by a man, but not dominating one. Never had the urge to dominate or be dominated by a woman. Tried it IRL a couple of times with really sweet and experienced men... but its only arousing to me in fantasy. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Best city and state for LGBT. |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:59 am
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Replies: 44
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| I can vouch for Phoenix being #5 city for LGBTQ. Family life was very nice there. :) Actually, felt pretty isolated living in the Seattle area, as I felt the factions pro-gay and pro-str8 were more extreme there (lived on the Kitsap side though). Hard to find a friend that didn't just wanna hook up,... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Which part of the body do you appreciate the most? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:54 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 11,804
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We're talking physical part, right? Okay...
On men only: p***s.
On women only: neck, hips, v**va
On both: eyes, hands, smile
On the non-physical... I loooove cutesy and geeky, in both partners, as well as calmness/centeredness. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is it normal to be *slightly* bisexual? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:46 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 16,193
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| Well, I was raised in a time and place where LGBTQ were openly harrassed and tormented, so socially was raised str8. But I had my first secret gay encounter at a very young age, so that forever colored the validity of identifying as such... It wasn't until the Army I realized it wasn't just thinking... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What is your orientation? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:34 am
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Replies: 81
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| Bisexual with preference for opposite sex... barely. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay guys and bisexuals |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:30 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,171
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| I'm a bisexual male in a relationship going on two years with a gay male. I haven't ever discussed my attraction to women with him. I consider it part of my private thoughts, so I don't feel the need to tell people. I feel that letting my thoughts and feelings flow freely, both internally and in ho... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What are your special interests? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 12:16 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 12,226
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| -- Have had a lifelong love of fabrics/textiles, and making things out of them -- stuffed animals for friends' kids, mostly. -- For work... deep-tissue bodywork. It's easily the most fulfilling and fascinating career I've had, and people get to leave happier and with less pain, brilliant. Education ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How was your high school experience/youth? |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 11:54 pm
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Replies: 50
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| Wow. These are some really horrible stories... I never did like going to school, esp MS and HS... it was the '80s and for a kid with signs of ASD, my community was still accepting of what now would make the papers... but really, many of the above stories top mine easily. I knew from very young, prol... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Anyone here over 40 and single? |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 11:35 pm
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Replies: 73
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| Yup. Never was great at socializing... Had a couple of LTRs, both failed. One was undeniably due to my inability to confront and cope with symptoms of BPD and depression complicated by ASD... and the other was my g/fs inability to cope with it, as hard as I tried to do good on what happened years ea... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Getting to know each other, Dino-style |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 11:17 pm
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Replies: 606
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| What is your first name? Call me Jay Age: 42 Location: Hawaii Current perseverations: WP (yaay), deep-tissue bodywork, illustration, lucid dreaming When did you discover AS? 2009 Do you have other psych diagnoses? No. Do you have a degree? No, but two technical college ones. Kids? Not going to happe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What was your first special interest? |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 109
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| I watch the 'Cosmos' series on netflix now. I love it! Yay! I still watch certain episodes and get a super-fuzzy feeling. 'Cosmos' and Dr. Sagan made astronomy and science as vast and wondrous as they should be in a 12-yo's mind... I hope Fox doesn't fumble that message when the new series debuts. 8O |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi again |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 8:04 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 518
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| Sure -- it should be in this post. Things seemed to behave normally from the My Acct page AFAIK. |
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