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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a date! |
| karenina |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 25
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MetalAspie wrote: We went to Chili's, and there was not 1 moment of awkward silence. Then we went back to her dorm, smoked some weed, drank some beers, and cuddled while we watched Lost Boys. And I got a goodnight kiss. 
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: WHICH IS THE BESTPROGRAMMING LANGUAGE TO START PROGRAMMING? |
| karenina |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 4:32 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 6,713
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My first programming language is C#. I should probably learn a second soon, might have to look through these suggestions.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Best girl advice for aspie guys |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2011, 12:40 pm
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Replies: 79
Views: 14,336
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| I like this thread. It's got lots of good advice. Don't think about it as changing who you are, but as learning to socialise much like you'd learn any other skill. Also, don't feel like you have to completely change your interests, maybe just try to be more open minded to others. Geeky/nerdy guys wh... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Interview for Female Aspies |
| karenina |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2011, 10:21 am
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Replies: 32
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| 1- How old are you now? 24 2- How old were you when you heard of asperger's/were diagnosed? 14 About the diagnosis: How did you hear of Asperger's/get your diagnosis? My school was sending me to all sorts of psychologist type people... I think they realised I was a bit odd. The first I heard of it ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately Trying to Save My Relationship |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2011, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 18
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| In your case I don't know. We didn't start out as long distance, it just happened because of work. Often the only thing that can properly fix it is seeing him again. Sometimes it can be as simple as getting a silly text... one of those ones that don't say anything beyond "I saw a deer!! !" but someh... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: How was your first week of college/university? |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2011, 11:00 am
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Replies: 10
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| I had a really good time in my first week at uni. It's one of the few occasions where everyone is going to be very enthusiastic to talk to anyone new, simply because no one knows who their friends will be yet. The student bar in my halls was so crowded I couldn't bring myself to go in there, but I f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately Trying to Save My Relationship |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2011, 10:40 am
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Replies: 18
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| We live in different countries, so meeting up isn't that frequent. But our relationship has been good in spite of the distance. I think for now it looks like we're just going to be good friends. Maybe in time this will pass and he will reconsider. But for now it looks like that's that. We'll still ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Staying Thoughts |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2011, 10:37 am
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Replies: 8
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| That's not enough for a leather jacket. If you're really persuasive it might just about get you a sleeve. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Moving In / Living Together |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2011, 6:52 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,655
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| I've been with my partner for 10 years. We waited until 3 yrs in to move in together, and then we always got a place where I could have my own room. We put in an extra bed for when I have insomnia, and my computer, and I kept it dark and quiet. She agreed not to bother me if the door was shut. Now ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So a girl likes me and damned if I know what to do |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 1:48 pm
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Replies: 7
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| This sounds a lot like how I felt at the beginning of my current relationship. I think you're definitely overthinking things. I wouldn't worry about how many days it's been since meeting. If you want to see her then do. If you don't then don't. If you both like eachother then there aren't set rules ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Munchkin |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2011, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 20
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| It's good fun but it's probably not the sort of game that people get obsessive over. It's definitely a roleplay themed card game rather than a roleplay game (although having said that, some of the D&D games I've been involved in ended up being more about the stats than the roleplay). |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Facial hair: yes or no? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2011, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 64
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I like my men with facial hair as long as they can grow it properly. The guys who try to have a beard and end up with patchy fluff probably shouldn't bother (sorry), but proper beards can be pretty attractive especially if long hair is also involved.
Spongy - your beard is fab. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If it turned out your partner was transsexual... |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2011, 3:31 am
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Replies: 213
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| Some of the things that people have said in this thread make sense... other comments are pretty abhorrent. Assuming that you go through the WPATH/Harry Benjamin process then it takes an unbelievable amount of effort to reach the end point: endless psych and medical evaluations; HRT; you name it. I'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If it turned out your partner was transsexual... |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2011, 11:41 am
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Replies: 213
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| Part of the problem is that by avoiding mentioning the fact that you're a transexual, you'd probably also have to modify or lie about other things from your past to make it add up. I just can't see any way that you could be otherwise totally honest without causing suspicion and it's the knowledge th... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Can you name the most popular programming languages? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2011, 7:44 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,724
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| I got 8 of them. I'm not a programmer though, so I think I can be happy enough with that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If it turned out your partner was transsexual... |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2011, 4:15 pm
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Replies: 213
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| It's the sort of thing that I would expect to be told before a relationship became serious, just as I'd expect the person to tell me if they were autistic and just like I've always told boyfriends about my AS before things go too far. There are some things that the world doesn't always need to know ... |
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