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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Feelings of being awkward |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 11:05 am
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| Sometimes I pretend like I'm busy with my phone (even pretend to talk on it) or I listen to my iPod. Luckily most humans do that anyway, so you'll fit right in. But I'm pretty much at the point where I don't care anymore. I actually tell people I don't like to be touched, engage in small talk, etc..... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Show and Tell |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2013, 4:07 pm
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attachment |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2013, 12:22 am
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| I can relate FueledByCoffee. My therapist says it's an aspie trait. Some aspies don't have this problem, but I do. We're all effected in different ways by Asperger's and some traits are stronger or lower in some aspies than others. Some aspies have meltdowns, I don't...there are so many different wa... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Lying to please mom |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2013, 12:28 pm
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| I wouldn't worry too much, he's a teenager (they can all be deceitful little con-artist at times)...also from your story and remembering what was like to be a teenager with asperger's, I think your son fabricated his friends and those stories because he was trying to please you and didn't want you w... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Do you believe in God and supernatural beings? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2013, 11:29 am
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Replies: 80 Views: 7,629
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| Yes, I believe in God. (If you're interested in why read on...if not don't...I'm not posting this to start a debate/argue, I'm just monologuing on one of my special interests which I rarely get to talk about because people are so sensitive about religion...so hopefully I don't offend anybody on here... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people ask if you have an accent? |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2013, 5:05 pm
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| YES!! ! I've been told by several people that I have a Californian, Keanu Reeves, surfer dude/stoner accent (I am neither a surfer or stoner or Keanu Reeves!). Whoa...who knew it could be related to Aspergers...dude.... I'm actually getting quite self-conscious of my voice, not a fan of people comme... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate parents |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2013, 11:29 pm
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| Do you have a job? Do you live on your own? If the answer is no to both questions, the first step is to get a job, save some money and become financially independent. Then you can get your own place. As long as your parents are supporting you it's going to be tough to establish even a shred of indep... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Saying "No" To Dates... |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2013, 11:52 am
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Replies: 92 Views: 5,832
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| That's true...hmmm...wearing headphones is actually a great idea! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Saying "No" To Dates... |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2013, 10:48 am
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Replies: 92 Views: 5,832
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| Lots of great feedback from you all, thanks!! I'll give some of it a go, I really like the "I'm too busy for a relationship right now" bit. I'm a terrible liar so saying I have a boyfriend or I'm "flattered" would be a bit much. Keep the advice coming... I'm glad I joined this online community, I ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Saying "No" To Dates... |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2013, 5:11 pm
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Replies: 92 Views: 5,832
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| I have a problem with getting asked out on dates A LOT...I hate it!! I had a guy follow me into Barnes & Nobles the other day just to ask me out, not cool! I don't understand how some guy just walking around a store, sitting at a coffee shop, etc...that I've never even met feels compelled to com... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: should I tell certain people I have aspergers |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2013, 12:01 pm
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Replies: 16 Views: 5,261
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| I'm having the same issue, should I tell people or not? Really I have to decide would I rather people continue to think I'm snobby/stuck up (which unfortunately is what people seem to think of attractive women who have aspergers, especially when I was in school) Or for people to know I have asperger... |
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