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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Gonna meet someone from OKC in 2 days, advice? |
| civrev |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2013, 10:54 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,899
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| Be yourself and focus on having fun. Trying to get comfortable and showing someone that you're fun to be around is probably the most important imo. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Picky and alone. |
| civrev |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 255
Views: 17,994
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| One thing I have noticed on women's profiles are suggestions for activities such as tennis, mini-golf, and bowling. To me those activities seem like good ideas because they're focused on having fun, and for me personally it'll probably help to loosen tension and nervousness doing a physical activit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been needing to get over clinginess over dating an NT |
| civrev |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 655
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| It totally depends on the person, I don't think there are any specific rules. But certainly you might want to work on toning it down a bit if you're really clingy. Let them message you once in a while, just so that you know they're interested in talking to you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Picky and alone. |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 255
Views: 17,994
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| Is it possible that the activities you do for dates have something to do with it? Do you think a spark might be more likely during some activities than others? I'm not sure. I try to keep first dates pretty standard, like dinner, coffee or drinks. I've not really thought it was a good idea to do so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Picky and alone. |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 255
Views: 17,994
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| Is it possible that the activities you do for dates have something to do with it? Do you think a spark might be more likely during some activities than others? I'm not sure. I try to keep first dates pretty standard, like dinner, coffee or drinks. I've not really thought it was a good idea to do so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Picky and alone. |
| civrev |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2013, 10:26 pm
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Replies: 255
Views: 17,994
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| Is it possible that the activities you do for dates have something to do with it? Do you think a spark might be more likely during some activities than others? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: confessions of a former Nice Guy(tm) |
| civrev |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 1:11 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 6,065
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| If you're not happy with yourself, how can you ever expect women to be happy with you? The reality is that you can feel justified in your self-pity all you want, but if you want to see yourself as successful it all starts with building self-confidence. The lack of it is pretty unappealing and genera... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can aspies apologise sincerley post meltdown? |
| civrev |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 12:56 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 5,778
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| Yeah having AS is no excuse for how he acted; he's still responsible for his own actions. It sounds to me like there's nothing you can do except wait for him to contact you and want to talk. At that point you need to have a long discussion with him about how to handle things differently, and make it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: From social loser, to pure happiness, to social loser again. |
| civrev |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 11:05 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,474
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| I know all too well how this feels. I entered into a relationship with a girl with BPD 2 1/2 years ago. She was 6 1/2 months pregnant when I met her and I was with her for a year and a half. At first, she would tell me things that made it sound like she was really unlucky, and being one who had very... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Newtown school shooter = Aspie? |
| civrev |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2012, 12:25 pm
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Replies: 122
Views: 21,415
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| Ugh. As an aspie who runs an after school chess club at a K-5 school, this is just another reason to actively keep my diagnosis a secret. As far as gun laws go, I'm not completely against ownership of guns, but tighter gun laws just make sense. Personal protection? The woman who legally bought the g... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: "newlsetter" |
| civrev |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2012, 8:23 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,416
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Anyone else notice the spelling error in the newsletter? Better spelling seems like a reasonable suggestion.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So confused... |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2012, 10:06 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,157
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| Is it possible that he's stressed out about the idea of coming to visit you? I think if there's something about it that he's really stressed about, perhaps he's putting it off so he doesn't have to deal with it. Perhaps step back for a few days and then bring it up to him again in like a week or som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girls who are intentionally confusing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 2:53 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I'm curious, what age group are you talking about here? I'm hoping that goes away somewhat as women grow into adulthood(25+), but I guess I'm not entirely confident about that. That does seem consistent with my observations though. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OKCupid might have come through |
| civrev |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2012, 4:29 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,806
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| Found a nice guy who is 1. AS, 2. strong Christian, 3. our intrests are in some same areas. His pic is also not bad looking. We exchanged phone numbers after a few messages, so now we will see how this goes. :D gl alhoughthe real test is if you guys have a second date..bu tas a girl that is your de... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: The news the mainstream US media won't show you |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2012, 5:35 am
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Replies: 6
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| Gary Johnson and Jill Stein advance to the 2nd and final 3rd party presidential debate which will be held in Washington, DC on Tuesday October 30th from 9 pm to 10:30 pm Eastern time. It will be broadcast live by RT America and on freeandequal.org. A link with the information can be found here: http... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I be patient or am I fooling myself? |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2012, 6:18 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,425
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| It sounds to me like he hasn't looked ahead towards the future. I think you need to have a chat with him about what he sees for himself in the future. I mean, you're either potentially a part of it or you aren't and if you're not you need to go your separate ways. Two years should be plenty of time ... |
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