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Forum: The Haven Topic: suggestions for dealing with anger and stress |
| sirhawkeye |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2014, 11:32 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 425
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| I should start by explaining how Aspergers affects me before I go into my problem, so you understand a little better. My aspergers is a bit minor compared to most of the people I have met who have the syndrome. The only big areas it affects me in is more the feelings side of things (relationships, a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: needing a change in my life |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2014, 12:02 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 875
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| So lately I've been getting frustrated with my current lifestyle as it is--in particular, dating. I will be honest that I haven't been putting in terribly a lot of effort, but am at the point where I'm thinking that that would be the one thing missing from my life. Basically, anyone have any good id... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what is this supposed to mean |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,264
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| So the girl I had been talking about previously, it eneds up that she wants to be friends. She told me she doesn't want a romatic relationship now because she has too much stress and it would cause more stress for her. She said she tried dating a few years ago but couldn't deal with having to deal w... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: need suggestion on the next step |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 8:55 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 924
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| I'm starting to think that maybe I need to hold off a little, and maybe get to know her a little better first before I tell her how I feel. We've gone out about 2 or 3 times only, and maybe that's too soon. But also, I don't want to wait until it's too late (and she thinks that we're just friends an... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: need suggestion on the next step |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 8
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| So, not to bring up an old topic again for no reason, I'm just a bit lost as to how to approach the situation with her and ask her about our friendship... I mean should I just be blunt and ask outright? I guess I don't want to creep her out by doing that, although if she has Aspergers, it may not. S... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you share your condition with others |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 12:17 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 545
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| Do you share the fact that you have autism/aspergers with others openly or do you wait to get to know them better first? I have this girl I've been doing stuff with and she tolde she has aspergers. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Thinking I may have screwed up |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 12:12 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,272
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| I guess my biggest concern is scaring her off or making her feel uncomfortable. I so much would like to express my feelings to her without being creepy or something like that . I sort of don't know where to begin .... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Thinking I may have screwed up |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2013, 1:22 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,272
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| Here's another subjective question, though... how willing are aspie girls to "forgive" and forget and move on from there if you make a mistake like this as opposed to NT females? Is there a difference or is this basically depend on the person? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: a bit depressed |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2013, 12:26 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 524
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| So, I was thinking of my friendship with this girl that I've hung out with a couple of times, and am trying to think of ways that I can still communicate and show interest, without being annoying, desperate or whatever. As I've stated in other threads, she doesn't call me, but I end up calling her. ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: to aspie men here: how you do with other males |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2013, 12:21 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 4,681
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| For me, I find that making male friends is easier than female friends. I think primarily because when meeting new male friends to hang out with, I'm not concerned with some aspects that I would otherwise be concerned with if making new friends with females. I feel its easier because (since I"m strai... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Thinking I may have screwed up |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2013, 12:10 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,272
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| Yes but I've heard that little things like these can upset someone with Aspergers (depending on the person, but I've heard more often than not). For me, it wouldn't matter. I would just dismiss it and move on, but some may not. I say this because from all of my reading, little things like this can u... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: does she actually care??? |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 11:42 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,000
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| I have been told that the ways to see if a person might like you romantically, see how often they will do some activity with you alone (not in a group of fiends). Also see if they initiate conversations with you about as often as you initiate conversations with them. If she initiates about half of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Giving aspie girl a gif for Valentines day |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 11:37 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,564
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| Yes, I decided not to send it to her. I think I'll wait to see where things go.... if things don't work out (as bad as this sounds) I can at least use the gift myself or give it to someone else (it was a gift card). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: does she actually care??? |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 11:32 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,000
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| I think she likes you :D I mean, the topics range from whatever to whatever, so it's not always specifically about her interests. It could be about family, school ,work, etc. It just seems like she rambles on. Do many aspie girls just keep going on and on about stuff, even if it's not one of their ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Thinking I may have screwed up |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 11:22 pm
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Replies: 11
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| So, when I went out with this aspie girl last weekend, I ended up paying for dinner and the movie, although she sort of offered to pay for herself, and I told her it was my treat. I've only known the girl for about 2 months, but only hung out maybe 3 times in those two months. I'm sort of concerned ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do Aspie girls fall in love quickly? |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 4,390
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| What's most people's opinion on this (I know it's a broad question), but I was thinking about how I perceive potential partners... I tend to analyze and usually it's too late by the time I make my decision. What's it like from the female perspective? |
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